The 4 Steps Relief Plan for Passive Aggression. Are You Facing Any of These Challenges? Is your wife threatening to leave you because what she calls your.

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The 4 Steps Relief Plan for Passive Aggression

Are You Facing Any of These Challenges? Is your wife threatening to leave you because what she calls your “passive aggression”? Are you struggling to understand why she is now giving up on you? Has your relationship deteriorated to the point that you can hardly share the same room? Are you worried about ending your life alone?

About Me.. Hi, I’m Nora Femenia, a relationship coach. I have spent 35 years working with people like you...reading, writing and consulting about daily challenges of marital incompatibility and toxic expectations. Suddenly, I began listening to clients accusing each other of using passive aggression, so I began focusing on it most of my time! This is the reason now I’m offering you this science-based relief plan that identifies the childhood roots of passive aggression, changes passive aggressive reactions and promotes healthier interactions. Even better, the plan has been proved by our own clients and it works!

What If You Could Have : A simple framework that explains the root causes of this behavior. A model for targeting such unproductive behaviors. A step-by-step map to replace them with good communication, restoring trust and peace. And a trained coach help to put it into action!

In Short, With This Plan: You will discover that you were imprinted with a mindset that is not working in your present situation; You will learn how to identify and change behaviors that are at the base of these problems. You will know how to approach your wife, and how to solve differences with her, And how to express your needs so they are not hidden but part of the marriage deal.

How Does The Relief Plan Work? Is based on the latest psychological research. It works by giving back to you the control of the reasons for your hidden sabotaging of your marriage. Once you know the reasons for your sabotaging, you will control them, saving emotional pain, time and money.

The 4 Elements of This Plan: 1. The Passive Aggressive self-assessment; 2. The book, “The Silent Marriage Solution: How stopping passive aggression improves your relationship, and makes your marriage stronger" 3. The “Essential Workbook to The Silent Marriage Solution” 4. One hour phone Coaching Session.

Let’s go over the details together?

The 4-Steps The Passive Aggressive self-assessment The Book, “The Silent Marriage Solution. How stopping passive aggression improves your relationship, and makes your marriage stronger“ The Essential Workbook to The Silent Marriage Solution: One in-person coaching session (a second session is optional)

1. The Self-Assessment Test The Passive Aggressive Self-Assessment: This survey of 21 questions will ask you to answer some hard questions about your personality so you can: See by yourself if you are using passive aggressive behaviors, and to what degree. Get peace of mind in knowing for sure where you stand and how much needs to change.

2. The Book The Book: "The Silent Marriage Solution: How stopping passive aggression improves your relationship, and makes your marriage stronger" – On this complete book of 98 pages you will discover the origins of the passive aggressive behavior defense and why it was functional then and there. Plus: – You will understand why using it now sabotages your intimate connection with your wife. – You will learn how to stop emotional reactions now destroying your love life.

3. The Essential Workbook to The Silent Marriage Solution: The complete workbook will give you concrete guidance on how to: – Reconstruct the past story, so you get to understand the logic of your reactions. – Once there, map the hidden roots of past anger. – Create a new way of thinking that rewires your brain eliminating old negative emotions.

4. Personal Coaching Together with your coach, you will review your personal situation and find the practical actions that will improve your marriage fast: Develop the ability to express your feelings in a non-judgmental space, while feeling supported and listened to; Gain new skills at negotiating your perspective and be respected exactly for that.

5: Optional Extra Coaching Session Focused on planning new, ready-to-use strategies: Receive external appraisal of your life map, get insight into your interactions, and learn new techniques to be applied in real time. When you apply what needs to be done, you develop emotional control inside your relationship. Regaining control over those areas that were once unknown to you, allows you feel empowered to change your marriage for the better.

You have a plan to save your Marriage Now, you have a plan you can put into action to save your Marriage from failure: A comprehensive plan, with coaching support, doable strategies and proven results guarantee your success! You can have your old, unwanted negative reactions under control, restart your marriage, and get more respect and love in your life.

Now, you have a way out! You have two options: – Do nothing and let your marriage die. – Invest in this Relief Plan & change your life forever. You have a 30 days warranty, there is no risk!

Here Is Your Way Out of Pain! “The 4 Steps Relief Plan for Passive Aggression” See you on the other side!