Ten Things Every Child With Autism Wishes You Knew By: Ellen Notbohm.

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Ten Things Every Child With Autism Wishes You Knew By: Ellen Notbohm

I am first and foremost a child. I have autism. I am not primarily “autistic”  Autism is only one aspect of my total character.  I am still unfolding. Neither you, nor I yet know what I may be capable of.  Defining me by one characteristic runs the danger of setting up expectations that may be too low.  I won’t try if I think you don’t believe I can do it.

My sensory perceptions are disordered.  This means that the ordinary sights, sounds, smells, tastes and touches of every day that you may not even notice can down right be painful for me.  Hearing can be hyper-acute, smell can be highly sensitive, and because I am visually oriented, this may be my first sense to become overstimulated.  Florescent Lights: too bright, buzzes, hums  Neglect a child’s sensory challenges and you will never even get close to discovering his/her capabilities.  Sensory issues are crucial to his/her ability to function.

Please remember to distinguish between won’t (I choose not to) and can’t (I am not able to).  It is not that I am not listening to instructions, it is that I can not understand you.  Instead, approach me and speak directly to me in plain words: “Please put your book in your desk, Billy. It’s time to go to lunch.” This tells me what you want me to do and what is going to happen next.

I am a concrete thinker. This means I interpret language very literally.  It is very confusing for me when you say, “Hold your horses, cowboy!” when what you really mean is, “Please stop running.”  Idioms, puns, nuances, inference, metaphors, allusions and sarcasm are usually lost on me. Don’t use. I don’t always understand what you are saying to me.  Example: Grown a Foot

Please be patient with my limited vocabulary.  It’s hard for me to tell you what I need when I don’t know the words to describe my feelings.  I may be hungry, frustrated, frightened or confused but right now those words are beyond my ability to express.  Be alert for body language, withdrawal, agitation or other signs that something is wrong.  Echolalia-rattling off words or whole scripts well beyond my developmental age. These are messages I have memorized from the world around me to compensate for my language deficits because I know I am expected to respond when spoken to.

Because language is so difficult for me, I am very visually oriented.  Show me how to do something rather than just telling me.  Be prepared to show me many times. Consistent repetition helps me learn.  Visual schedules are help as I move throughout my day.  Pair auditory and written information with pictures.

Please focus and build on what I can do rather than what I can’t do.  I can’t learn in an environment where I’m constantly made to feel that I’m not good enough and that I need “fixing’”  Look for and build on my strengths.  There is more than one right way to do most things.

Help me with social interactions.  It may look like I don’t want to play with the other kids on the playground, but sometimes it’s just that I simply do not know how to start a conversation or enter a play situation.  Encourage other children to invite me to join them at kickball or shooting baskets, I might be delighted to be included.  I do best in structured play activities that have a clear beginning and end.

 I don’t know how to read facial expressions, body language or the emotions of others, so I appreciate ongoing coaching in proper social responses.  Teach me appropriate responses and interactions for various situations.  If I laugh when Emily falls off the slide, it’s not that I think it’s funny. It’s that I don't know the proper response. TEACH me to ask, “Are you okay?”  Teach me what you expect of me.

Try to identify what triggers my meltdowns.  Meltdowns, blow-ups, tantrums or whatever you want to call them are even more horrid for me than they are for you.  They occur because one or more of my senses has gone into overload.  If you can figure out why my meltdowns occur, they can be prevented. Keep a log noting times, settings, people, and activities. A pattern may emerge.  Try to remember that all behavior is a form of communication! It tells you, when my words cannot, how I perceive something that is happening in my environment. (ABC)

Patience, Patience, Patience  Work to view my autism as a different ability rather than a disability.  Look past what you may see as limitations and see the gifts autism has given me.  Be my advocate, be my friend, and we’ll see just how far I can go.  With your support and guidance, the possibilities of me being a successful, self- reliant adult are broader than you might think. I promise you— I am worth it!