Unlocking the L ve between Mother s&Daughters May 31,2014

A Mothers’ Role-From the Viewpoint of God If the fall had not occurred, this world would have become an ideal world centered on God’s Ideal Plan and Will. God created all things, including the angelical world, yet it was not enough. Then God Created Adam out of His own masculinity, yet it was not enough. God had to project His femininity into this world to complement Adam. Therefore, the womans’ role is a very important and strategic one. When God created Adam He said, it is not good that the man should be alone”. So God created Eve. He poured all His Heart and all His love into Eve because she was the final creation of God. It is a fact, that God culminated the expression of His heart and love in the creation of Eve That is why Eve became the model and center of love.

OM ega of Creation God expected Eve to absolutely, unconditionally and willingly fulfill her responsibility with the realization that she was the last and therefore most important creation of God. He consummated everything in Eve, thus making her the “Omega of Creation”. For this reason, everyone is born out of a woman’s womb.

A MOTHER’S WOMB A child grows for nine months in the mother’s womb and after that, the child is loved and nursed by the mother. So Eve was the most strategic element for God’s work of creation and that is why God created her last of all. Eve as a mother was the “Hope of Humanity.

A Mothers’ Role Women have the important role of bearing children, raising them, and guiding the family as God’s representatives—with the uniquely feminine sense of affection and love that God has granted to women. This original feminine nature is something God endowed each woman with.

A Mothers Role By nurturing the fruits of love and investing in her children’s upbringing, a woman connects and extends the traditions and lineage of her family. For this reason, although her external efforts are important, the role of the mother in cultivating character and raising her children to have healthy, wholesome natures is the highest function of motherhood. In fulfilling this role, mothers truly represent the heart of God.

The Mother Daughter Relationship Why is the mother-daughter relationship such a complex one? Linda Perlman Gordon and Susan Morris Shaffer, authors of “Too Close for Comfort? Questioning the Intimacy of Today’s New Mother-Daughter Relationship, explain why mothers and daughters can have a close bond but should never take it to the level of being best friends, to get your mother-daughter relationship back on track you need to experience a parent- child relationship before becoming best friends.

BEST FRIENDS Ms. Shaffer, says that a best friend relationship is different from a mother-daughter relationship. It requires having common experiences: You raised your children together, you went to the same college and you’re in the workplace together. Mother and daughters are never in the same stage of life at the same time, so the relationship is never equal.

Parent-Child Relationship Most best friend relationships are not unconditional. One thing that’s very important is that unconditional love governs the parent-child relationship. Our Creator God is also our parent, when we give birth to children we become co-creators with God. Nothing is more important or precious than the relationship between parent and child.

w hat defines the parent-child relationship ? I. Love, II. Life and III. Lineage. Without God, as our parent, His love as a precondition, none of us would be alive today. God created human beings out of His absolute love, in order to be His partners in love. We are all a part of God’s Lineage.

FORGIVENESS To understand the concept of forgiveness, we first understand what forgiveness is and what forgiveness is not. 1.Forgiveness is a form of realism. 2.Forgiveness is an internal process. 3.Forgiveness is a sign of positive self-esteem. 4.Forgiveness is letting go of the past. 5.Forgiveness is no longer wanting to punish those who hurt us. 6.Forgiveness is moving on. What forgiveness is not! 1Forgiveness is Not forgetting. 2Forgiveness is not condoning. 3Forgiveness is not absolution. 4Forgiveness is not a for of self-sacrifice. 5Forgiveness is not a sign of weakness, but of strength.

An Ideal Family from God’s Perspective What do you think is God’s ultimate purpose for creating human beings? Simply put, it is to experience joy through relating with ideal families filled with TRUE LOVE. What is true love? Principally speaking, it is “living for the sake of others” or giving and and not looking for something back.