Erik Erikson Black, Sharp, Shull
Trust vs. Mistrust Infants Age: 0-18 months Important Event: Feeding Look to caregiver for stability & consistency for care Success: Consistent, predictable, & reliable care will develop trust in other relationships Hopeful for support during crisis Failure: Harsh or inconsistent, unpredictable and unreliable care will lead to fear Develop anxiety, heightened insecurities, overwhelming feelings of mistrust Basic Virtue: Hope
Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt Toddler Age: 18 months-3 years Important Event: Toilet Trainig Begin to assert their independence Walking away from mother, choosing what to wear and what toys to play with Parents must encourage child to become more independent but protect them from constant failure Success: child will become confident and secure in their ability to survive in the world Failure: feel inadequate and become overly dependent upon others, lack of self-esteem, and feel a sense of shame or doubt in their abilities Basic Virtue: Will
Application to Of Mice and Men Lennie Small: Lennie’s lack of autonomy results in his dependency of George Milton. When Lennie was a toddler he did not experience independence from his parents like he should have. He had no choice on what he wore, ate, or played with because his parents did not allow him to experience free-will.
Initiative vs. Guilt Pre-schooler Age: 3-5 Important Event: Exploration Playing: Allows kids to explore their personal skills through initiative activities with others. Makes kids feel secure in the way they lead others and make decisions. Not Playing: Kids develop a sense of guilt, begin to feel like a nuisance, remain a follower. Questions: Children begin asking questions to adults, if they don’t answer seriously, the kids may feel like a nuisance. Balance: Too much guilt will inhibit both creativity, and the ability to interact with others. Not enough guilt will hinder the development of a conscious, and self control. Main Virtue: Purpose
Industry (competence) vs. Inferiority Grade-schooler Age: 5-12 Important Event: School Teachers: Teachers begin to take an important role in the child’s life as they teach them specific skills. Peers: Peers become important, kids will try to win approval by doing things. Pride: Develop pride in their hard work and accomplishments. Parents should congratulate them on the good things they do, but not praise them for it. Balance of industry: Too much industry and the child will have no modesty, but too little will cause low self-esteem, self doubt, and the child will feel inferior to others. Main Virtue: competence
Identity vs. Role confusion Teenager Age: Important Event: Social Relationships Two identities involved: the sexual and occupational Role: Teens begin to become independent and want to find their place in society. If they do not find their own identity in society they can become role confused. Body: During this stage the body image of the adolescent changes adolescent may feel uncomfortable about their body for a while until they can adapt and “grow into” the changes. Main virtue: Fidelity Fidelity involves being able to commit one's self to others on the basis of accepting others, even when there may be ideological differences.
Application to The Giver Children in this novel do not have the privilege of choosing their role in society because they are appointed to them by a higher authority, This causes a rebellion in the main character, Jonas, in his attempt to choose his own identity. The lack of self-identity results in his confusion of true role in society.
Intimacy vs. Isolation Young Adult Age: Important Events: Relationships Individuals begin exploring relationships leading toward long term commitments with someone (spouse, friends) Success of this stage can lead to: comfortable relationships, commitment, safety, and care Failure of this stage can lead to: isolation, loneliness, depression, and promiscuity/exclusivity Basic Virtue: Love
Application to The Stranger Meursalt’s lack of ability to form truly intimate relationships is a good example of how he failed in this developmental stage in life. He doesn’t label his relationship with Marie as a serious commitment therefore he lacks the basic virtue of love.
Generativity vs. Stagnation Middle-Aged Adult Age: Important Events: Work and Parenthood Individuals establish their careers, become productive at work, become involved in community activities, develop a sense of being a part of a bigger picture Success leads to: generativity Attempting to produce something that makes a difference in society Failure leads to: feeling stagnant, unproductive, rejection, and overextension Basic Virtue: Care
Ego Integrity vs. Despair Older Adult Age: 65+ Important Events: Reflection Enables individual to look back on life with closure Completeness, excepts death without fear Slow down productivity, judge individual’s life Success in this stage: having a sense that the individual accomplished a lot in their life Failure in this stage: feel to have had an unproductive life, feel guilt about the past or not accomplishing their life goals, feel dissatisfied with life Develop despair, depression/hopelessness Basic Virtue: Wisdom
Application to Tuesdays with Morrie Morrie’s ability to succeed in this stage shows he developed well in his reflection on life. This proves that when Morrie looked back on his life, he was happy with what he accomplished. If he was to fail this stage, he would have a sense of giving up on his life rather than embracing it.
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