Wise parents never try to convince kids that their decisions are fair.

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Wise parents never try to convince kids that their decisions are fair.

Wise parents do not pay kids for completing their chores.

Wise parents don’t dignify the ridiculous by offering factual information.

There’s nothing wrong with a child that an arguing parent can’t make worse.

Wise parents know that their children will someday choose their nursing home for them.

Wise parents know that character and responsibility are more important than good grades.

Kids either find love and understanding at home, or they find it in gangs - cults - sex.

Wise parents give guidance while keeping responsibility for the problem squarely on the child’s shoulders.

Wise parents know that kids only threaten to starve themselves. If not, there would be no adults on earth.

Wise parents never allow their child’s words to gain shock value.

Saying “No” to a $ pair of sneakers does not constitute child abuse.

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Don’t addict kids to things they won’t be able to afford when they leave home.

Parents who constantly try to be the “brick wall” soon have many battle scars.

Wise parents don’t allow themselves to be drawn into battles over their kid’s body language.

Wise parents encourage their kids to go “first class” on their own money.

Strong family relationships and good parenting are more powerful and longer lasting than peer pressure.

Parents are wise to worry about the kind of education their kids are getting on the Internet.

There are no things more powerful than quiet, loving, or silly moments between us and our kids.

The only throne a child should sit on is in the bathroom.

Kids feel safer and more loved when Mom and Dad are queen and king in a loving, gentle way.

Parental anger and frustration feed misbehavior.

Empathy opens the mind and heart to learning.

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Wise parents wait until they are calm and have a solid plan Before delivering consequences.

Wise parents know that kids will only use guilt on their parents if it works.

Wise parents never allow guilt to guide their parenting.

Wise parents never waste their words trying to talk their kids into caring.

Children who learn that temper tantrums work become adults who use them often.

The only person who can calm an angry person is that angry person.

While in the heat of emotion, it’s a very poor time to make decisions.

Wise parents know that the best way to get kids to dislike each other is to force them to shake hands and apologize.

Wise parents know that yelling, “Stop fighting!” is about as effective as fighting fires with a squirt gun.

There is no case of sibling rivalry that won’t be made worse by parental anger, frustration, or worry.

Control is a lot like love and respect. The more we give, the more we receive.

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The more kids are able to control adults, the more out of control they feel --and are.

Wise parents recognize “guilt trips” from their kids, and they never give into this type of manipulation.

Not getting one’s way is good practice for adult life.

Children who are always protected from being upset become always upset adults.

Never reason with a drunk, or with a child who is drunk on emotions.

Wise parents know that in boredom are the seeds of creativity.

Wise parents allow their kids to get bored, and then help them channel this feeling into creative discoveries.

The more we entertain kids, the more they will Start to believe that they need to be entertained.

The ability to tolerate boredom and to entertain oneself are essential life skills.

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When kids cause a problem, hand it back. Hand it back in a loving, non-angry way.

Great techniques won’t work if the child believes that you won’t back up your words with actions.

Wise parents know that doing the right thing won’t guarantee a happy kid.

Wise parents remember that reporting unlawful activities is a civic duty.

Repetition is the key to learning. Tell others what you learn here and you will learn more.

Create a perfect world for your child and he/she won’t fit into the real one.

Childhood disappointments are good practice for adult life.

Wise parents say, “When you take adult perks, you take on adult responsi- bilities.”

Enjoy the presentation. Laugh and Learn with Love and Logic.