7.3 AND 7.4 IN THE TEXTBOOK How Fights Start and Preventing Violence.

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7.3 AND 7.4 IN THE TEXTBOOK How Fights Start and Preventing Violence

Dear Advice Line, There’s a guy at school who whispers “loser” every time he sees me in the hall. I know this guy is a jerk, so I ignore him. My friends think I should insult him back. Do you agree with this student’s response? Why or why not? What if the insults were shouted, not whispered? Warm-up

Arguments Anger is at the root of most arguments and of many fights. About 40% of all homicides stem directly from arguments.

Anger The body reacts to anger the same way it does to stress. Physical changes include tensed muscles, and increased heart and breathing rates. You can control your overall reaction to anger. By choosing not to fight, you do not let the other person control you.

Hurt Pride and Embarrassment It is not surprising that hurt pride and embarrassment lead to fighting. When your pride is hurt or you become embarrassed, you may become angry.

Revenge The desire for revenge leads to a dangerous cycle of fighting. In cases where revenge is the motive for a fight, the fighting can quickly escalate or grow more intense. Revenge is a common motive in fights between territorial gangs.

Peer Pressure It is often more difficult for a person to avoid a fight when friends or bystanders are present.

The Role of Friends Friends who urge you to fight are acting as instigators. Instigators are people who encourage fighting between others while staying out of the fight themselves. The people who gather do so hoping to see a fight. The Role of Bystanders

Control One person’s desire to have control over another is the main reason for domestic violence and dating violence. There are laws that protect women in abusive relationships. There are also groups that try to help abusers learn to control their violent behavior.

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Slide 11 of 20 The higher your total score, the better your skills as a peacemaker. In which area would you most want to improve? Explain. Quick Quiz For each statement, rate yourself on this scale. When I am upset with someone, I talk to the person in private where we cannot be overheard. When I am angry, I avoid using insults or name-calling. I apologize when I do or say something hurtful. I avoid spreading rumors.

Choosing Not to Fight Once you recognize that a conflict exists, there are two general approaches you can take. you can ignore the conflict you can confront the person

Ignoring a Conflict Some people think that ignoring a conflict is a sign of cowardice. It is actually a sign of maturity and self-control.

Be Flexible Deciding to ignore the conflict could make the other person angrier. Be prepared to try a new tactic if ignoring the conflict could make things worse. In deciding how to deal with any conflict, your safety should always be your first concern.

Learn to Control Your Anger Learning to control your anger is an important skill to master if you want to avoid conflicts. If you are not satisfied with the way you now deal with anger, many people can help you. parents teachers coaches school counselors members of the clergy

Confronting a Person Wisely To confront a person wisely, you need to choose the right time and place stay calm negotiate a solution

Choose the Time and Place Carefully When you need to confront a person, pick a time when you can talk face-to-face. It is best to meet in a public area. If you suspect the other person is under the influence of drugs, postpone your discussion.

Stay Calm People have different techniques for keeping calm under pressure. Rehearse the confrontation beforehand. Use deep breathing or count to 20.

Negotiate a Solution Communication style can affect the outcome. Do the Unexpected If, instead of being hostile, you are friendly, confident, and caring, the other person may relax his or her guard. Provide a Way Out Present the other person with compromise solutions that you both can live with. Be Willing to Apologize Sometimes a sincere apology can be the quickest way to defuse the situation.

Helping Others to Avoid Fights You can help prevent fighting through mediation your role as a bystander involving an adult

Mediation A process for resolving conflicts that involves a neutral third party is called mediation.

Your Role as a Bystander As a bystander, you can use the following strategies to show your disapproval of fighting as a way to resolve conflicts. Ignore those people who make negative remarks about other people. Refuse to spread rumors. Do not relay a threat or insult from one person to another. Stay away from any area where you expect a fight could take place.

When to Involve an Adult If a friend reveals plans of violence to you, it is important to ask for help. It is never easy to break a friend’s confidence. Nevertheless, it is critical to share your friend’s plans for violence with a trusted adult.