Flirting versus Sexual Harassment Know the difference
Flirt with: Experiment with or show a superficial interest without committing oneself seriously. An idea, activity or movement. How do people flirt?
Flirting Behave as though attracted to or trying to attract someone but for amusement rather than serious intentions
Sexual Harassment Unwanted sexual advances or obscene remarks in a work place or other professional/social situation.
Sexual harassment is about….. POWER or a way of maintaining or getting power. Usually occurs between employers/employees, supervisors/staff. Professors/students. FINE LNE!
What to do? Firmly tell the person who is harassing you to STOP. Write the date, place, and behaviors of the harassment. Find witnesses. File a grievance with appropriate person. Also, can file civil/criminal charges.
Factors Contributing to Under reporting of harassment. 1. Do not want to get the harasser in trouble – just want it to stop. 2. Embarrassment 3. Fear of retaliation – losing job. 4. Women think that this is “just the way men are” and ignore the harassment. 5. Men – embarrassed to act contrary to the stereotype that men welcome any opportunity for sexual activity.