Oriented toward Others The final trait… …or all the others combined?

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Oriented toward Others The final trait… …or all the others combined?

Others-Oriented Orientation = your focus, goal, direction, attention Others orientation = you live for others as much as for yourself You show concern for them. You desire to meet their needs. You generously share with them. Opposite = self-centered unaware, unconcerned, uninterested in others What is it?

Others-Oriented “It’s not about me, it’s about others” xx What is it? Locks of Love Vacations that Help Others National Make A Difference Day

Others-Oriented Set aside your needs for a while, listen, respond with empathy. Use your words to encourage others and build them up. Ask about them, talk about their ideas, show you care. Generously offer your own resources to meet their goals. How do we communicate it? Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier. Be the living expression of God’s kindness: kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile.

Others-Oriented Honest Willing to forgive HumbleCompassionateCourageousTrustworthyConnected How do we communicate it?

Others-Oriented Honest Willing to forgive HumbleCompassionateCourageousTrustworthyConnected What are the results?

Others-Oriented GOOD CHARACTER ACCORDING TO KINNIER Commit to something greater than yourself Respect yourself, but with humility and self-restraint, avoiding selfishness and self-centeredness Respect others, showing compassion and forgiveness; serve others in recognition of your connectedness to them Respect the environment and all living things What are the results? IT’S NOT ABOUT YOU

Others-Oriented Honest Willing to forgive HumbleCompassionateCourageousTrustworthyConnected How do I develop or acquire good character?

Oriented toward Others The final trait… …or all the others combined?