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Helena Sharpstone and Caryn Skinner Mental Toughness Helena Sharpstone and Caryn Skinner

The session What is it? What’s in it for you to be mentally tough? What does it look like? Creating the right environment When does it come in handy? How to switch off when you need to

The session What is it? What’s in it for you to be mentally tough? What does it look like? Creating the right environment When does it come in handy? How to switch off when you need to

What is Mental Toughness? Keeping strong in the face of adversity. Keep your focus and determination Events don't throw you off your game. Tenacity to learn from your mistakes Keep emotions in check

It is the voice in the back of your head that tells you to keep going, keep pushing, and keep trying, even when the going gets tough.

Mental Toughness

Main features Ordinary Cannot avoid emotional distress It can be learned

“The more I practise the luckier I get” Gary Player

The session What is it? What’s in it for you to be mentally tough? What does it look like? Creating the right environment When does it come in handy? How to switch off when you need to

Higher performance Emotional wellbeing Psychological health Physical health

The session What is it? What’s in it for you to be mentally tough? What does it look like? Creating the right environment When does it come in handy? How to switch off when you need to

What does it look like?

People who have it Welcome challenge Strong commitment Personal control Optimism Look at themselves constructively Isolate negative events Future focussed Tolerance for ambiguity Thrive on change Empathy for others Create solid goals Form strong relationships

People who have it Self evaluate Use feedback intelligently Welcome feedback Accept they will fail sometimes Learn lessons Don’t get stuck in negative patterns Change habits Collaborate Take responsibility for their actions Get enough sleep Value and protect “me time” Keep learning

The session What is it? What’s in it for you to be mentally tough? What does it look like? Creating the right environment When does it come in handy? How to switch off when you need to

Creating the right environment The capacity to make realistic plans and take steps to carry them out A positive view of yourself and confidence in what you have to offer Strong communication skills Problem solving abilities The capacity to manage emotions and stress

The capacity to make realistic plans and take steps to carry them out Prioritising Allow planning time “Energy lists” Bravery in the face of changing priorities

A positive view of yourself and confidence in what you have to offer Encourage skills audits Discourage black and white thinking Practise thought reframing Identify and challenge sources of negativity

Strong communication skills Promote the power of listening Identify different styles of influence Encourage more pitching/public speaking/presenting Challenge existing media – what is the best way? Adopt a flexible style Get feedback

Problem solving abilities

The capacity to manage emotions and stress Get your own house in order Remember stress is an inside job Think of ways to encourage balance Encourage consistent, calm and reasonable behaviour

The session What is it? What’s in it for you to be mentally tough? What does it look like? Creating the right environment When does it come in handy? How to switch off when you need to

Ambiguity My ‘Yippee!’ is your ‘Oh no!’ 

Emotional Response Sad Mad Please zapp this up Wary Glad

Completely new situations Complex situations Ambiguous situations can be defined as: Completely new situations Complex situations Apparently insoluble situations

Ways to tolerate and manage ambiguity effectively - Shift gears/change course quickly and easily - Decide and act without having the total picture - Tolerate situations where things are up in the air - Move between tasks and activities without having to finish each one - Tolerate and be comfortable with risk and uncertainty.

Take Charge of Your Thinking… I take ACTION based on my beliefs I adopt BELIEFS about the world The Reflective Loop I draw CONCLUSIONS I make ASSUMPTIONS based on the meanings I added I add MEANINGS (cultural and personal) Our beliefs affect what data we select next time I select “DATA” from what I believe Observable “DATA” and EXPERIENCES (as a videotape recorder might capture it)

Reacting vs Responding Reacting – We react when we are not in control of our lives. Responding – We respond when we accept responsibility for our own actions. © Andrew Lothian, Insights, Dundee, Scotland, 2006. All rights reserved. INSIGHTS, INSIGHTS DISCOVERY and INSIGHTS WHEEL are registered Trade Marks.

From Reacting to Responding This is a bad idea – it won’t work and our data base is fine as it is anyway I’m not totally convinced but let’s explore the idea more as it may mean improvements How am I supposed to make this happen in so little time – I have a day job too! This clearly needs to be done but I’m going to need guidance on prioritising it The donors won’t like this approach we’ll lose them and never get them back and then how will we sustain funding for future programmes? I’m concerned about how the donors might respond so let me explore the idea more as it may mean more opportunities

Ways to Reduce impact of Ambiguity Control your thinking Connect with your feelings Be expressive Manage your responsibilities © Andrew Lothian, Insights, Dundee, Scotland, 2006. All rights reserved. INSIGHTS, INSIGHTS DISCOVERY and INSIGHTS WHEEL are registered Trade Marks.

The Four Modes of Behaviour Aggressive I win – You lose Assertive I win-You win Depressive I lose – You lose Passive I lose – You win Assertiveness – the OK Corral. Links back to the Conflict Styles model.

The Three Steps to Assertiveness Take them through the process followed by some additional techniques on the next slide.

Positive, Problem Solving Approach

The session What is it? What’s in it for you to be mentally tough? What does it look like? Creating the right environment When does it come in handy? How to switch off when you need to

How to switch off when you need to