How Was I Loved?. How Was I Loved? Intimacy interacts in various ways with the man’s chain mail Intimacy interacts in various ways with the man’s chain.

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How Was I Loved?

Intimacy interacts in various ways with the man’s chain mail Intimacy interacts in various ways with the man’s chain mail. Early relationships affect the expectations we have of our present relationships.

Read each statement below. Score each statement as follows: 1 - If you believe that love was likely to be shown to you in this way 0 - If you believe that it was unlikely for love to be shown to you in this way

II. My Mom, before my birth: 1 - If you believe that love was likely to be shown to you in this way 0 - If you believe that it was unlikely for love to be shown to you in this way Prepared for her pregnancy with me. _____ Carefully chose the male/man who impregnated her. _____

II. My Mom, before my birth: 1 - If you believe that love was likely to be shown to you in this way 0 - If you believe that it was unlikely for love to be shown to you in this way Chose a good man to be my father. _____ Was loved and supported by her family and was emotionally ready to have a child. _____

II. My Mom, before my birth: 1 - If you believe that love was likely to be shown to you in this way 0 - If you believe that it was unlikely for love to be shown to you in this way Took care of her body during pregnancy. _____ Had the initiative and social skills to ask others to assist her in the preparations for my arrival. ____

II. My Mom, before my birth: 1 - If you believe that love was likely to be shown to you in this way 0 - If you believe that it was unlikely for love to be shown to you in this way Prepared my room and decided on a childcare, medical, and nutritional plan for me. _____ Defined my birth as a gift. _____

II. My Mom, before my birth: 1 - If you believe that love was likely to be shown to you in this way 0 - If you believe that it was unlikely for love to be shown to you in this way Focused on my health, not my gender, as most important. ___

My Mom, after my arrival: 1 - If you believe that love was likely to be shown to you in this way 0 - If you believe that it was unlikely for love to be shown to you in this way Enjoyed caring for me. ____ Willingly sacrificed her needs and comfort for mine. ____

“Abandoned and rejected by his mother, he was destined to be an angry man.” Ishmael Genesis 21:8-20

My Mom, after my arrival: 1 - If you believe that love was likely to be shown to you in this way 0 - If you believe that it was unlikely for love to be shown to you in this way Allowed me to be myself, rather than who she thought I should be. ____ Set boundaries which taught me to be responsible and kept me safe. _____

My Mom, after my arrival: 1 - If you believe that love was likely to be shown to you in this way 0 - If you believe that it was unlikely for love to be shown to you in this way 14. Modeled good self-control. __ Comforted me when I was hurt. __ Valued me and was realistic about my gifts. __

My Mom, as I grew up, encouraged me: 1 - If you believe that love was likely to be shown to you in this way 0 - If you believe that it was unlikely for love to be shown to you in this way To understand and consider the spiritual aspects of life. _____ To become independent and allowed me to do things on my own. _____ By providing fair and consistent discipline. _____

My Mom, as I grew up, encouraged me: 1 - If you believe that love was likely to be shown to you in this way 0 - If you believe that it was unlikely for love to be shown to you in this way By providing an environment that was comfortable for our family and friends. __ By supporting my learning process and by expecting me to do my best. __

My Mom, as I grew up, encouraged me: 1 - If you believe that love was likely to be shown to you in this way 0- If you believe that it was unlikely for love to be shown to you in this way By demonstrating a strong work ethic. _____ By listening in a non-judgmental fashion. _____ By being a loyal and supportive partner to my Dad. _____

My Mom, as I grew up, encouraged me: 1 - If you believe that love was likely to be shown to you in this way 0 - If you believe that it was unlikely for love to be shown to you in this way By having a separate love relationship with my Dad. ___ By modeling an optimistic “Can do” attitude. ___ By controlling her anger and “speaking to the truth in love.” ___

My Mom, as I grew up, encouraged me: 1 - If you believe that love was likely to be shown to you in this way 0 - If you believe that it was unlikely for love to be shown to you in this way By her ability to guide and manage her emotions. ___ By not competing with my dating partners. ___ By developing her own friendships and supportive community. ___

My Mom, as I grew up, encouraged me: 1 - If you believe that love was likely to be shown to you in this way 0 - If you believe that it was unlikely for love to be shown to you in this way By knowing when to say “No” to my wants. ___

“Conscience is less an inner voice than the memory of a mother’s glance.” -Robert Brault

My Mom, as I grew up, encouraged me: 1 - If you believe that love was likely to be shown to you in this way 0 - If you believe that it was unlikely for love to be shown to you in this way By living according to a clear purpose and setting priorities. __ By expressing herself, clearly and directly. __ By playing and laughing with me. __

Add up the score. How many characteristics of love did your mother demonstrate? _____ (out of 34) How well did she model the intimacy skills that you would need in the future in order to relate well to others?