To Know from Durham (2008) VCF couples’ S-D processes:

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To Know from Durham (2008) VCF couples’ S-D processes: Rules-driven determ. of appropriateness Cultural criteria Gendered criteria Motivational/Contextual criteria Risk criteria Confidant selection-external boundary linkages determ. by same 4 criteria and Acceptance/similarity Concealment characteristics WHO they chose to hide from & Reasons for concealment Risk neg rxns Risk lack of understanding

Subsystems (e.g., marital, parent-child, sibling) Smaller units w/i larger system Share charac’s of larger system, BUT… Each type = separate mini-culture (norms, roles, behav’s, expectat’s) Must maintain bound’s for system function

Systemic Boundaries Demarcat. Indicat. WHO/WHAT is in/out system 2 Forms of BOUNDARIES: SYSTEMIC BOUNDARIES (who is in/out of “family”) INFO BOUNDARIES (what is in/out of family)

First, SYSTEMIC BOUNDARIES Determ. what = Family EXTERNAL BOUND’S Permeable separat. b/w Phys. or psych. limits Permeable/Flexible Rigid/Inflexible Almost invisible INTERNAL BOUND’S Comm Patterns Diffuse Rigid

Why set boundaries? EXTERNAL BOUND’S Restrict Regulate INTERNAL BOUND’S Protect

What affects Systemic Boundaries? Personalities – Exposed exper. – Internal system freedom IDEAL 

Internal/External Family Privacy Orientation (Serewicz & Canary, 2008)

Second, INFO BOUNDARIES Communication Privacy Management (Sandra Petronio, 1991) Theory w/ a million names…

INFO Boundaries in Families We constantly balance! Openness vs. Closedness (viewed as equally good) (disclosing info freely) Promotes intimacy Risks vulnerability (keeping info private) Promotes autonomy Risks isolation Privacy Orientation Informs conceptual border around private info Differs in

Privacy Boundary Coordinat. Patterns Inclusive* Ex. Young adults FB-friend parents: Profile updaters/Prvcy-setting adjusters  lower conversat. & higher conformity orientat. (Ball et al., 2013) Ex. Parents’ financial info to kids – avoid worry/shame/judg. (Romo, 2011) Intersected* Unified* Ex. Compared to Laissez-faire/Conversat., Protective (Conform.) families  more member trait-prvcy (Bridge & Schrodt, 2013) Relationship-Specific