Public/stage charisma: Natural or artificial?
Very few people have charisma naturally Most celebrities naturally show their charisma after years of practice Example: Lin, Chih-lin; Sui, Tang; Chou, Jay They LEARNED how to look good and behave well.
Very few people have charisma naturally Most celebrities naturally show their charisma after years of practice Example: Lin, Chih-lin; Sui, Tang; Chou, Jay They LEARNED how to look good and behave well.
Let’s learn to increase our public charisma! Find your style and dress well. Look professional, especially in interviews. Learn public speaking skills (http://ergonomics.uq.edu.au/download/presentation.ppt) The most important thing is to attract people’s attention at the beginning (just like M3 model). Adjust your content when necessary.
Elements for increasing charisma Self-confidence Deep values Vision and observation Sensory acuity Energy
Tips for public/stage charisma Preparation and simulation Rapport Borrow images of authority Tone and rhythm Body language (smile, gesture, eye contact and interaction) Contrast (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jx8KlhQBsvQ&feature=related) (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MMmljYkdr-w&feature=related) (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SbiWRS7MRnA) (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=op0GJMfqar8&feature=related) (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H1MLhbzH1eQ&feature=related)
Obama’s techniques Obama is very good at both overt and covert techniques. Some interesting references from Youtube: Public speaking - Speaking Secrets of Barack Obama - media training presentation training Obama Using NLP? OBAMA CONVENTION SPEECH The Obama Deception HQ Full length version A real PUA is able to attract someone for a long/short term relation, and only good memories remain even if the relation dies.
Obama’s body language Holding thumb and index finger together. This mimics holding a pen and also stands for the letter O. Behave like a leader and connecting good images to himself. Connect bad images to opponents. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pc8Wc1CN7sY&NR=1)(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DygBj4Zw6No) Head tilting (pretending vulnerable)
Obama’s body language Head tilting (pretending vulnerable) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sVMhuiHm50I http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2wF_n-gn-Yo&feature=related
Obama’s emotional words Change! We need. Yes, we can Hope Believe
Obama’s language patterns Causality creation: That’s why I stand here tonight -> to be the next President of USA As …., because …. Pacing and leading (Yes sets) Embedded command with presupposition (making you think that you have already chosen Obama) Direct command (You will say to yourself: I will vote for Barack)