What’s I’m assuming That we all want youth and children to become disciples of Christ;

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The church-home partnership Gareth Crispin Youth Children & Families Minister St. John’s Lindow.

What’s I’m assuming That we all want youth and children to become disciples of Christ;

What’s I’m assuming That we all want youth and children to become disciples of Christ; That we all think that peer groups, family and the wider church are important in this.

A problem Y&C Church

A problem Secularisation (Fragmentation in society) Consumerism (now extended to identity) Professionalization (trust the expert and the systems)

Solution? Bring things back to the family (Family Ministry) Deuteronomy 6:4-6 & Ephesians 6:4 Integrate the Y&C into ‘the church’ (integration or Intergenerational church) Mark 3:31-34, the context of Deuteronomy and the doctrine of adoption and Fatherhood of God.

Describing the relationship Family Ministry “The process of intentionally and persistently coordinating a ministry’s proclamation and practices so that parents are acknowledged, trained and held accountable as primary disciple-makers in their children’s lives.” Jones Intergenerational Church “When a congregation intentionally brings the generations together in mutual serving, sharing or learning within the core activities of the church in order to live out being the body of Christ to each other and the greater community." Allen & Ross

Describing the relationship Family Ministry It takes parents (a father) to raise a child Intergenerational Church It take a church to raise a child

Describing the relationship Need to avoid going completely one way or the other in a way that does not do justice to the Biblical witness

Describing the relationship If it’s not one or the other then how do we connect the two?

Describing the relationship Recognise that: biological and legal families area creation ordinance and blessing; Church is a redemption ordinance and blessing;

Salvation history Creation Re-creation Fall Redemption

100 Church Primacy in discipleship Family Adult Time/age

Describing the relationship Aim of biological/legal guardians is not merely to disciple Y&C into the faith (universal church), but into the church (local church with discipling /shepherding at its heart);

Describing the relationship Aim of biological/legal guardians is not merely to disciple Y&C into the faith, but into the church; Almost like handing over pastoral responsibility.

Before getting practical see this as a mind set a way of seeing

If these are important how can we partner together well?

Partnering in support of the bio-legal family?

Partnering in support of the bio-legal family Disciple them in Christ; Love them; Pray for them Support marriage (courses, books pastoral visiting, preaching, don’t overload parents!); Good examples to young people before they get married and have children; Bigging up baptism (= corporate commitment) Parenting courses (before birth!), parenting as topic in pastoral visiting, preaching on parenting (in application and directly), parent mentors (older couples who are a few years down the line); Family Worship resources, seminars etc.; Communication on what is happening in Y&C’s groups; General practical help (esp in the early years) Help them understand the culture of Y&C; Encourage parents with examples of what their Y&C have said/done; Don’t provide so many Y&C events that there is no room for family events or even family life! Don’t allow anti-parental attitudes in youth group Teach on Family, marriage and parenting to the youth group

Partnering in support of the wider church ?

Partnering in support of the wider church Pray for the wider church and the church leaders; Train church leaders in Y&C ministry; Prepare the family for worship Don’t allow/foster anti-church attitudes in the home or Y&C groups; Find out what is going on in Y&C groups and talk about it at home; Teach about the church in the home (our family, brothers and sisters etc.) Present church gatherings as central rather than a consumer choice; Intentionally foster relationships between Y&C (build the peer group) and Y&C and older adults in the wider church; Don’t work so hard at Y&C groups that they naturally emerge as separate entities (e.g. branding and advertising and strategy); Families encouraging other families in support of wider church.

Partnering in support of the wider church ?

Partnering in support of the peer groups Pray for the Y&C group leaders; Train Y&C group leaders; Volunteer for Y&C groups; Don’t allow/foster anti-Y&C group attitudes in the home or wider church; Present Y&C groups as central rather than a consumer choice; Encourage other families to support Y&C groups (invites, lifts, good comments etc.)

Other things a church might do that might help the partnership Teach same thing in Y&C groups on Sunday Work at clean formal communication Think carefully before presenting a menu of services; Prepare them at each step for inclusion in wider church (e.g. transition group for move out of Sunday groups); Accommodate them into church – make it accessible they are the weaker brother/sister. e.g. style and applications in preaching, how we go about communion, singing etc. Mark transitions (e.g. year 6-7; school leavers)? Family Forums

Other things a church might do that might help the partnership

Implementation? Get parents, youth leaders and Vicars together; Talk about the mind set; Talk about which things you’d like to change (this may mean stopping other things); Talk about how to communicate that and how quickly to do it and what concerns some people may have; Talk about what issues will need to be addressed.

Resources Engaging parents as Allies (Wayne Rice, 2009); Family Ministry Field Guide – How your church can equip parents to make disciples (Timothy Paul Jones, 2011) Men the Gap – Can the Church reconnect the generations (Jason Gardner, 2008) Sticky Faith – Everyday ideas to build lasting faith in your kids – Kara Powell & Chap Clark, 2011)