Living a Balanced Life “Relationships”

“The Lord God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone “The Lord God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” Genesis 2:18 NIV

“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” Ecclesiastes 4:7-9 NIV

The Need for Relationships We were created to be relational It is the very law of nature that we are inclined to society Research shows that people with healthy relationships live longer, deal with stress better, are healthier, and feel richer – (Article: “Why Personal Relationships Are Important” – University of Minnesota)

The Need for Relationships The value of good relationships Companionship to share in the experiences of life – Romans 12:15 Partnership to help in the affairs of life - Ecclesiastes 4:7-9; Proverbs 17:17; 18:24; 27:6, 9-10

When Relationships are Imbalanced Imbalances in Relationships are common There can be an imbalance of power, wealth, beliefs, responsibilities, core values, communication, . . . Sometimes it’s difficult to identify what the imbalance is

When Relationships are Imbalanced Chronic imbalances can cause major problems! They can cause serious emotional problems They can cause serious physical problems They can cause serious spiritual problems They can ruin relationships!

How to Develop Balanced Relationships Seek God’s Wisdom God’s Word is full of teaching about relationships! – Proverbs 8:1-11; 2 Timothy 3:16-17; Romans 12:9-21; Ephesians 5 - 6 We must be transformed by the renewing of our minds! – Romans 12:2

How to Develop Balanced Relationships Practice the two Greatest Commandments! Love the Lord with all your heart . . . – Matthew 22:36-38 Love your neighbor as yourself – Matthew 22:39-40