Institute of Youth Ministry

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Institute of Youth Ministry Relational Ministry Steve Case Institute of Youth Ministry May, 2017

More friends and closer friendships Guarantee: More friends and closer friendships

A baseball diamond analogy

2nd Base 3rd Base 1st Base Home Plate

2nd Base 3rd Base 1st Base History Home Plate

2nd Base High Five 3rd Base 1st Base History Home Plate

2nd Base High Five 3rd Base 1st Base Help History Home Plate

High Five Help History Home 2nd Base High Five 3rd Base 1st Base Help History Home Home Plate

5 Ways to do “History” 1. Do get-acquainted activities 1st Base History 1. Do get-acquainted activities 2. Welcome new people 3. Share stories about your life 4. Make Bible study personal 5. Plan for interactive activities

5 Ways NOT to do “History” 1st Base History 1. Give lectures or “talks” 2. Don’t learn people’s names 3. Focus on information 4. Sit in rows; face the front 5. Read aloud from printed stuff

5 Ways to do a “High Five” 1. Smile at individuals 2nd Base High Five 5 Ways to do a “High Five” 1. Smile at individuals 2. Verbalize something positive 3. Share what you have in common with someone else 4. Literally give a “high 5” 5. Listen to what someone says

5 Ways NOT to do a “High Five” 2nd Base High Five 5 Ways NOT to do a “High Five” 1. Stick with people you know 2. Be stoic (or sneer) 3. Laugh and point at someone 4. Talk about only yourself 5. Use “put downs” on others

5 Ways to do “Help” 1. Admit you need help 3rd Base Help 1. Admit you need help 2. Take a risk with someone you trust 3. Make it anonymous 4. Humbly help others 5. Be confidential

5 Ways NOT to do “Help” 1. Brag about yourself 3rd Base Help 1. Brag about yourself 2. Don’t take others seriously 3. Gossip 4. Keep things light/superficial 5. Never admit you need help

5 Ways to do “Home” 1. Go to other bases, too 2. Accept people Home Plate Home 1. Go to other bases, too 2. Accept people 3. Admit mistakes 4. Ask forgiveness 5. Celebrate God and others

5 Ways NOT to do “Home” 1. Look down on others 2. Be very private Home Plate Home 1. Look down on others 2. Be very private 3. Point out other’s mistakes 4. Be demanding and critical 5. Never admit anything

Some examples

Relationships are the foundation for ministry