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Conflict between King Saul and David FOTOBACKGROUND «Saul told his son Jonathan and all the attendants to kill David. But Jonathan had taken a great liking to David and warned him, “My father Saul is looking for a chance to kill you.” » The Bible (TNIV), 1 Samuel 19:1-2

Conflict management FOTOBACKGROUND conflicts have belonged to life as long as people have existed

FOTOBACKGROUND they belong to our story

FOTOBACKGROUND they are a part of everyday life

FOTOBACKGROUND they sometimes come close to us

FOTOBACKGROUND they often have disastrous consequences

FOTOBACKGROUND but they can also turn out all right

FOTOBACKGROUND «Ángel Matos, Taekwondo fighter Olympic Games 2008 in Peking»

How should I deal with conflicts? FOTOBACKGROUND How should I deal with conflicts? avoid?

How should I deal with conflicts? FOTOBACKGROUND How should I deal with conflicts? avoid? delegate?

How should I deal with conflicts? FOTOBACKGROUND How should I deal with conflicts? avoid? delegate? kill?

How should I deal with conflicts? FOTOBACKGROUND How should I deal with conflicts? avoid? delegate? kill? reconcile?

How should I deal with conflicts? FOTOBACKGROUND How should I deal with conflicts? avoid? delegate? kill? reconcile? or?

Steps to resolving conflicts FOTOBACKGROUND Steps to resolving conflicts «But David said to Abishai, “Don't destroy him! Who can lay a hand on the LORD's anointed and be guiltless?”» The Bible (TNIV), 1 Samuel 16:9

«Step into the shoes» of the other person FOTOBACKGROUND «So they inquired further of the LORD, “Has the man come here yet?” And the LORD said, “Yes, he has hidden himself among the supplies.”» The Bible (TNIV), 1 Samuel 10:22

FOTOBACKGROUND «In December 2010 Stefan was in hospital for almost three weeks.»

FOTOBACKGROUND «“As surely as the LORD lives,” he said, “the LORD himself will strike him, or his time will come and he will die, or he will go into battle and perish.”» The Bible (TNIV), 1 Samuel 26:10

Choose the ideal moment FOTOBACKGROUND Choose the ideal moment «Then David crossed over to the other side and stood on top of the hill some distance away; there was a wide space between them. He called out to the army ...» The Bible (TNIV), 1 Samuel 26:13–14

«No gos» in resolving conflicts: FOTOBACKGROUND «No gos» in resolving conflicts: If possible don’t carry out the conflict over the phone

«No gos» in resolving conflicts: FOTOBACKGROUND «No gos» in resolving conflicts: If possible don’t carry out the conflict over the phone Never carry out the conflict in an email or text message

«No gos» in resolving conflicts: FOTOBACKGROUND «No gos» in resolving conflicts: If possible don’t carry out the conflict over the phone Never carry out the conflict in an email or text message Never ever carry out a conflict using Facebook.

Attack the problem and not the person FOTOBACKGROUND Attack the problem and not the person «Why is my lord pursuing his servant? What have I done, and what wrong am I guilty of?» The Bible (TNIV), 1 Samuel 26:18

Look for a common solution FOTOBACKGROUND Look for a common solution «Now let my lord the king listen to his servant's words. If the LORD has incited you against me, then may he accept an offering... The Bible (TNIV), 1 Samuel 26:19

Look for a common solution FOTOBACKGROUND Look for a common solution ... If, however, people have done it, may they be cursed before the LORD! They have driven me today from my share in the LORD's inheritance.» The Bible (TNIV), 1 Samuel 26:19

FOTOBACKGROUND «Then Saul said, “I have sinned. Come back, David my son. Because you considered my life precious today, I will not try to harm you again. Surely I have acted like a fool and have been terribly wrong.”» The Bible (TNIV), 1 Samuel 26:21

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