MARRIAGE

KEY TERMS Marriage- a lifelong union between a husband and a wife, develop an intimate relationships. Emotional Intimacy- the state of being emotionally connected to another person. Emotional Maturity- the ability to assess a relationship or situation and to act according to what is best for oneself and for the other person in the relationship. Divorce- the legal and to marriage.

Health Marriages: Working Together Responsibilities: Love Commitment Compromise Emotional Intimacy

Benefits Of Marriage Emotional & Physical Intimacy Companionship and deep friendship Financial support system Greater emotional stability

Engagement: Developing Your Relationships Built on mature love, not on infatuation, or exaggerated feelings of passion Tolerate and accept the other person’s flaws Determine what is needed to improve and allow to grow. * Mature love takes time to develop and be willing to learn about each.

Discussing Important Issues What are our values and beliefs? Should we have children? How will we handle conflict between family members? Should both of us work? Where should we live? What are our economic expectations?

Divorce and Remarriage Not all marriages are successful Troubled marriages sometimes lead t0 separations; living apart for awhile

Reasons for Divorce Communication Problems Infidelity Unfulfilled expectations Lack of intimacy Abuse Not being prepared Different financial habit and goals $$$

Ways to Save a Marriage Make a list of all issues you argue or feel hopeless about Refocus on yourself Eliminate all negativity; increase positive energy Remember why you married; don’t give up Therapy

Teens who Deal with Divorce

Impact of Teens on Divorce DO’s DON’T Separate yourself from your parents’ problems. Recognize that being mad at parents and loving them at the same time is normal. Realize that you are not alone-many teens are going through similar situations. Ask for help. Don’t feel responsible Don’t isolate yourself Don’t think you are alone. Don’t refuse help.

Closing Slip List 3 Difficulties a teen may face if his or her parents divorce. Explain how could you help the teen. Support your answers.