GENERATION GAP

What is generation gap? The generation gap is represented by the differences between the young and the old that can lead to conflicts and can complicate the relationship between the two. Generation gaps occur when two age groups see the world from significantly different perspectives. As to the different attitude towards life, people belonging to the old generation always wonder what has gone wrong with the new generation. They feel that during their time, young boys and girls were better behaved, more obedient and had more respect for elders. Young people, on the other hand, feel that they are capable to learn on their own and that they don’t need to rely on the older generation for guidance. Young people do not like to be spoon-fed by their elders. Generation gap issues can be solved through discussion and interaction. Older people should admit to the competence of the young, whereas youngsters should express their opinions respectfully. Therefore, people from both age groups should realize that every individual has positive and negative traits, as well as some limitations.

Questions What is generation gap? When does it appear? What are the aspects of one generation’s lifestyle that another generation finds difficult to understand? Do you believe there are any ways in which young people today behave worse, or better, than older people did at their age? Can you think of any examples of one generation having mistaken beliefs or assumptions about another?

Reading activity: Different perspectives Liam (16) John (59) Sally (85) Discuss the key moments they mention!

What events and trends reflect and shape each generation? World events Local events Popular and Influential Culture: music, movies, television shows, technology, fashion trends, toys, inventions

Personal experience Did you have any misunderstandings with your parents when you were young? If yes, what were the reasons?

Vocabulary Diffident – modest or shy because of a lack of self-confidence Forward – presumptuous, pert or impudent Obnoxious – extremely unpleasant Precocious – advanced, forward, mature, gifted Tearaway – a person who behaves in a wild or a reckless manner Tomboy – a girl who enjoys rough, noisy activities, traditionally associated with boys

Independence and individualism To stand on one's own feet To cut the (umbilical) cord To be (off) on one's own To leave the nest To have a mind of one's own To make it on one's own

Bridging the gap Discuss the following situation. Mike is almost 20 years old. He knows that his parents take a great deal of pride in seeing him succeed. He has been angry with them for a long time for not accepting him for who he is, for not taking better care of him, and for downplaying any accomplishment that doesn't fit in with their own tastes. He flunks out of college, which embarrasses and worries them.

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