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FREE LISTENING

Have you heard? You have to be willing sometimes to listen to some remarkable bad opinions. Because if you say to someone, 'That's the silliest thing I've ever heard; get on out of here!'—then you'll never get anything out of that person again, and you might as well have a puppet on a string or a robot. John Bryan My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? The greatest compliment that was ever paid me was when one asked me what I thought, and attended to my answer. HenRy David Thoreau My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? No man ever listened himself out of a job. Calvin Coolidge My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? I remind myself every morning: Nothing I say this day will teach me anything. So if I'm going to learn, I must do it by listening. Larry King My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak; courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen. Winston churchill My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? A good listener tries to understand what the other person is saying. In the end he may disagree sharply, but because he disagrees, he wants to know exactly what it is he is disagreeing with. Kenneth A. Wells My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? Effective listeners remember that "words have no meaning - people have meaning." The assignment of meaning to a term is an internal process; meaning comes from inside us. And although our experiences, knowledge and attitudes differ, we often misinterpret each other’s messages while under the illusion that a common understanding has been achieved. Larry Barker My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? The most basic of all human needs is the need to understand and be understood. The best way to understand people is to listen to them. Ralph Nichols My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? Being listened to is so close to being loved that most people cannot tell the difference. David Oxberg My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? Leaders who don’t listen will eventually be surrounded by followers who have nothing to say. Andy stanley My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? Really listen, because in every answer there are at least three more questions you want to be asking. Melanie Whelan My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? Loneliness does not come from having no people around, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself, or from holding certain views which others find inadmissible. carl juNg My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? When people do not feel heard, they yell. anonymous My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? Every person that you meet knows something you don’t; learn from them. anonymous My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? Communication doesn't begin with being understood. It begins with understanding the other. anonymous My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply. StePhen R. Covey My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? I've learned to get really good at this - say one thing when I'm thinking about something else, act like I'm listening when I'm not, pretend to be calm and happy when I'm really freaking out. It's one of the skills you perfect as you get older. Lauren oliver My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? There is a lot of difference between listening and hearing. C. k. chesterton My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? The more you talk about them, the more important they will feel. The more you listen to them, the more important you will make them feel. Roy t. bennett My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? An appreciative listener is always stimulating. Agatha christie My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? It takes two to speak the truth - one to speak and another to hear. Henry david thoreau My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? There's more than one way to tell each other things, and there's more than one way to listen, too. Katherine Hannigan My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? The cliché is true: People don't care what we know until they know we care. Rick warren My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? Wisdom is the reward you get for a lifetime of listening when you’d have preferred to talk. Doug Larson My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? Successful selling begins with listening. Your job when you are in front of the prospect is to ask questions and then listen to the answers. Take copious notes about what they tell you; what they say and what they don't say. Diane helbig My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? A skilled listener can help people tap into their own wisdom. Richard rohr My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? If you make listening and observation your occupation, you will gain much more than you can by talk. Robert Baden-Powell My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? Everything in writing begins with language. Language begins with listening. Jeanette winterson My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? Listening is not merely not talking, though even that is beyond most of our powers; it means taking a vigorous, human interest in what is being told us. Alice deur miller My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? A person hears only what they understand. Johann Wolfgang von goethe My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? Deep listening is miraculous for both listener and speaker. When someone receives us with open-hearted, non-judging, intensely interested listening, our spirits expand. Sue patton thoele My aha – effect on this:

Have you heard? Listen to the whispers or soon you will be listening to the screams. ´ Elizabeth gilbert My aha – effect on this: