13.10.2016. Jelgavas 6. vidusskola school psychologist Jeļena Votčele Workshop „Good practices for better communication between children and parents” 13.10.2016. Jelgavas 6. vidusskola school psychologist Jeļena Votčele

Some conclusions from theory Communication is the process of establishing, maintaining and developing contacts, whose goal is to influence the behavior of the partner; it is the form in which people satisfy their social needs. Good parent/child communication – good parenting. A parent's relationship with his or her child will be reflected in the child's actions – including child behavior problems. Listening and talking is the key to a healthy connection between parents and their children.

Laurence Steinberg The Ten Basic Principles of Good Parenting What you do matters.  You cannot be too loving.  Be involved in your child's life.  Adapt your parenting to fit your child. Establish and set rules.  Foster your child's independence. Be consistent.  Avoid harsh discipline. Explain your rules and decisions. Treat your child with respect. 

Good practices for better communication between children and parents in Jelgavas 6. vidusskola Individual consultations for parents and their children about effective parenting (psychologist) Educational and supporting groups and workshops for parents: by the school psychologist by invited experts

Exhibitions and concerts with and for parents

Discussions Sport activities

Inquiry of children and their parents Children from 5th Form (11 years old) – 24 pupils 7th Form (13 years old) – 25 pupils 11-12 Forms (17-18 years old) – 54 pupils Parents: 5th Form – 13 people 7th Form – 7 people 11-12 Forms – 16 people

What is “a good parent” for children? (pupils, %)

When do the parents think they are “good parents”? (parents, %)

In the relationship between children and parents the most important are: %

spending time together What do children appreciate in their communication with parents most of all? understanding trust love attention talk advice honesty justice care respect kindness support spending time together interest in their life