Goals of Care Communication Curriculum

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Goals of Care Communication Curriculum
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Module 3: Improving Communication at the End of Life: Managing Conflict Goals of Care Communication Curriculum Alpert Medical School of Brown University

Objectives At the conclusion of this presentation, the participant will be able to: Manage conflict in an effective and empathic manner to de-escalate anger and frustration experienced by patients and families during serious illness Recognize that in life-threatening situations, anger is a common response Describe communication techniques for diffusing anger Apply recommended skills to manage conflict and guide patients’ families and other clinicians through difficult decisions

Anger is an Emotion May not respond to logic Easy to fall into defensive patterns when attacked

Approaches that are likely to fail Using logic Defending you and your staff (getting defensive) Blaming the patient

Dealing With Conflict in Caring for the Seriously Ill “It Was Just Out of the Question” Back AL and ArnoMld R JAMA. 2005. 293:11;1974-81

Avoiding or denying conflict Issue may percolate, become worse; in long term, avoidance or denial creates perception of lack of leadership

Assuming that you know the whole story Misses opportunity to improve mutual understanding

Repeatedly trying to convince the other party Misses opportunity to understand true concerns and annoys the other person, who may stop listening

Assuming you know the other party’s intentions Labeling other party’s character rather than focusing on behavior leads you to view him/her as inflexible

Holding the other party responsible for fixing the issue Resolution more difficult unless both parties take responsibility for finding reasonable outcome

Proceeding as if the issue can be settled rationally or based on evidence Ignores emotions that have been triggered by conflict

Declaring other party as ethically questionable Condescending and potentially insulting to other party

Using anger or sarcasm as coercive threat Creates resentment and undermines trust in relationship

Ignoring one’s own strong emotions Emotions tend to leak out and become obvious to other party and may complicate negotiation

Proceeding in the heat of the moment Strong emotions tend to narrow perspective and reinforce existing conflict

Active listening: Turn full attention to speaker rather than focusing on your own concerns or on counterarguments and provide feedback showing that you have understood

“What I’m hearing you say is that you want us to do everything possible to prolong your father’s life.” “It sounds like you are concerned about this patient’s suffering being made worse.”

Self-disclosure: Reveal to listener some aspect of how you are feeling without blaming the other party for your emotions

“I am worried that even the best medical care will not be able to achieve your hopes.” “I need a few minutes to cool off because I’m irritated; but later we need to talk about the next steps.”

Explaining: Provide listener with information about which aspects of the situation you are most concerned about

“My view of this situation is that providing intravenous fluid would give her, at best, a 50-50 chance of improving.”

Empathizing: Provide listener with evidence that you understand his emotional state

“I can see that you care a great deal about what happens to your mother.” “This just feels like a sad situation.” “I think anyone would feel as worried as you given the circumstances.”

Reframing: Describe situation as a mutual problem to be solved collaboratively

“Now I think we should look at the issue of intravenous fluid as not just ‘Do we do it?’ but as part of the bigger picture of her care.”

Brainstorming: Propose potential solutions without critiquing them as a first step in problem solving

“Let’s try to come up with a few ideas about how to prepare for her death and then pick a few to work on

Notice the conflict Am I feeling angry, or irritated, or bored, or having my usual response to conflict?

Prepare yourself Get into a “ready to negotiate” state of mind Am I too angry to listen fully? Am I still rehearsing why I’m right? Am I feeling punitive?

Find a nonjudgmental starting point for the conversation Allow them to tell their story “Let’s start with the big picture about what we are hoping for in Mrs X’s situation.”

Reframe emotionally charged issues “For a lot of people, providing food is a way of showing love. If that’s part of the issue, let’s talk about other ways you can do that.” “I don’t think of withholding intravenous fluid as starvation. It’s a medical treatment that isn’t always good for someone who is in the last phase of life.”

Respond empathetically “I know that you would never want to feel that you were starving your mother. These decisions definitely require a lot of thought.”

Look for options that meet the needs of both parties “How about if I describe a treatment trial and you can tell me your reactions, both positive and negative?”

Summary It is important to address conflict with an open, nonjudgmental, and calm mind Avoid techniques that are doomed to fail and increase the anger Look for options that meet the needs of both parties

Acknowledgments Original Contribution by: Edward Martin, MD Revised by: Lynn McNicoll, MD Supported by: Donald W. Reynolds Foundation Grant