Communicating with Health Care Providers   Adapted from materials of National Family Caregivers Association

Value of Good Communication Shared Decision-Making Eases Time Limitations Clears Misunderstandings and Confusion Encourages Professionals to be More Responsive

Barriers to Communication Patient Focus Time Limitations Lack of Team Approach Mechanistic Approach Lack of Conflict Resolution Skills Stressful Work Habits

Suggestions From Health Care Professionals Enhance Communication Support Treatment Plans Please Respect Our Limits

The Caregiving Team Caregiving Team Care Recipient Family Caregiver Primary Doctor Caregiving Team Specialist Nurse

Establish Presence Breathe Deeply Make Eye Contact Stay in the Moment Establish Rapport Maintain a Strong Sense of Self

Participate Actively Be Prepared Clearly State Your Purpose Offer Relevant Information Ask Questions Be Assertive

Levels of Assertiveness (High Profile) Issue an Ultimatum Set Limits of Acceptance Offer a Win/Win Compromise Clearly State What You Want Recommend a Solution Suggest Alternatives Ask for Alternatives Ask Questions Provide Feedback Listen Actively (Low Profile) Understanding Match how assertive you are to the situation

Build Mutual Understanding Use Active Listening Ask for Clarification Demonstrate Understanding Avoid Assumptions State Difficulties and Concerns

Encourage Collaboration Focus on Common Goals Clarify Responsibilities Speak Openly and Honestly Help with Problem Solving Express Appreciation for Help

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