Family Management and parenting Family Management and parenting. Introduction to family management and parenting.

Topics Introduction to Family Management and parenting: Family: importance,role,function in building a balanced personality Tarbiyah Conducive environment Dedicated parents Systematic and gradual process Knowledge and virtue Between ideal and reality

Introduction to Family Management and parenting Learning Outcomes Define the meaning of family, management and parenting. Analyze the family’s role and functions. Identify the main characters of good parenting and family. Applications of parenting skills.

main Topics: Meaning of family and parenting. Roles and functions of family. Important of family management.

Meaning of Family Family is the basic unit that makes the social fabric/structure /foundation of any community. Family is a basic social unit consisting of parents and their children, considered as a group whether living together or not. Family is made up of husband, wife, children, and close relatives. Family is a network that links parents, children, relatives and others.

Meaning of Family Management: It refers to the process, ways, approaches and activities undertaken by parents and family members to manage the family. Marriage, communication, problems. Education, health, life style. Financial manners. Family relations Family protections

The benefits of family management bringing family members closer together making it easier for grown-ups and children to talk making everyone more organised and less stressed making the most of precious time and finances helping grown-ups deal with the way children behave providing a way of passing on your family values helping children develop important social skills for life helping your family find more time to have fun together.

some ideas for basic family management: Communication: it’s important to talk through family issues with all family members, including children. Affection, positive attention and family time: everyone in the family needs to feel loved and valued. Make sure your children – and your partner – receive lots of encouragement, positive feedback and signs of affection. It’s also important to make time

Cont--------- every week to do things as a family – even a short walk or a visit to the park can help bring you together. Routines: consider your daily routines and figure out what system works best for all members of the family. Routines make children feel safe and secure, and can make the busy times of day less stressful for everyone. Sharing tasks: think about how you can divide up jobs so everyone is happy. Preferred reactions: talk about how you would like everyone to respond to difficult or challenging situations like tiredness, an upset child or financial pressures. Social life: think about ways everyone in the family can meet their needs for a social life.

Meaning of Parenting:   The various skills, techniques, values, principles and ways followed by parents to ensure: Proper planning of the family needs. Maintain good relations between family. Proper up-bringing of children. Effective communication in family- ISSUES. Conductive environment-----BALANCE. Rights and duties.

3 Major Parenting Goals Ensuring children’s health and safety Preparing children for life as productive adults And, transmitting cultural values

4 Key Points to Positive Parenting Success: An Effective Parent your words and actions influence your child the way you want them to. A Consistent Parent You follow similar principles or practices in your words and actions. An Active Parent You participate in your child’s life. An Attentive Parent You pay attention to your child’s life and observe what goes on.

5 Tools to Successful Positive Parenting: Responding to your child in an appropriate manner. Preventing risky behavior or problems before they arise. Monitoring your child’s contact with his or her surrounding world. Mentoring your child to support and encourage desired behaviors. Modeling your own behavior to provide a consistent, positive example for your child.

Roles and Functions of Family: Develop a balance personality. Proper environment for education To mature the feeling of love. Family’s protection Monitor the children activities. To inculcate the noble values among the family members. Family needs and Society (Contribution).

Importance of Family Management and parenting Responsibilities---(understand it toward ourselves, children and others). Skills----abilities in establishing family. Process ----The gradual progress of our children. Vision-- to become good parents and family builder. Mission– instills/inspire/encourage in us the sense of responsibility.

What is Tarbiyah? Tarbiyah` is an Arabic word that means development, increase, growth, and loftiness. In Islam it means the development and the training of people in various aspects. Tarbiyah refers to the systematic development and training of our pupils in the light of Islamic teachings. It is a continuous and comprehensive process of developing all aspects of our pupils’ character and personality, i.e. spiritual, intellectual, moral, social and physical aspects

Cont------------ The real aim of Tarbiyah is to develop Taqwa and to put all members of family on the path of constant self purification, self-correction and self-development and instill in them the passion for truth, righteousness, justice and respect for others. The focus of Tarbiyah is to train pupils who are distinguished, strive for excellence, are self-motivated, conduct a balance life, live in peace with themselves and their environment, be equipped with the necessary knowledge, understanding, and skills to make difference in the society by taking an active role in the reform process that seeks to make the betterment of our community, our country and the entire world.

Cont------------- The full impact of Tarbiyah is truly realised when parents, pupils, teachers and other staff of education sectors all work cohesively together.

Summary Happy parents -------------------- happy family Happy parents raise happy children Appreciate what your family members do Always give a hug Begin your day with a smile Talk to them Do you know what the word family means? Family = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)ou

Education---Balance. Collective effort---Unity. Values---Noble values. Life style—Manage it. Conflict management—Solving the problems.