Communicating Across Genders Psych 190: Warriors at Home Dr. Elena Klaw

Goals For Today Film: “He Said. She Said.” (Deborah Tannen) What Gets In the Way of Communicating Effectively Across Genders? Communication Skills

What Gets In the Way of Communicating Effectively Across Genders? Gender role “scripts” Culturally learned communication styles Different expectations and goals

Communication Skills Different ways to make a point: male vs. female styles Expressing what you need: Using “I Statements” Boundaries Independence vs. dependence Maintaining self respect, values, and safety Mutual understanding: active listening Moving toward - “I’m here no matter where you are or where you have been” (Charise Hoge) Get support: Counseling Services, Next Door Solutions to Domestic Violence, Suicide Crisis