Ephesians 5:22-24   22 Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord.  23 For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, He Himself being the Savior of the body.  24 But as the church is subject to Christ, so also the wives ought to be to their husbands in everything.    

Wife’s Ministry Role: Response

God seen a manifest need in man Gen 2:18a  Then the LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone; …

God met that need by creating woman Gen 2:18  Then the LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him." 

Wife’s Ministry Role: Response Ministry of Helping Ministry of Respecting Ministry of Submitting Ministry of Adorning

Helps

Roles in Ministry: Necessity of orderliness 1Co 14:33  for God is not a God of confusion but of peace, as in all the churches of the saints. 1Co 14:40  But all things must be done properly and in an orderly manner.

1Co 12:28  And God has appointed in the church, first apostles, second prophets, third teachers, then miracles, then gifts of healings, helps, administrations, various kinds of tongues.

Gen 3:16  To the woman He said, "I will greatly multiply Your pain in childbirth, In pain you will bring forth children; Yet your desire will be for your husband, And he will rule over you."  

Wife’s Ministry Role: Response Ministry of Helping Ministry of Respecting Ministry of Submitting Ministry of Adorning

Submission & Adornment

1Pe 3:1-6  In the same way, you wives, be submissive to your own husbands so that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, they may be won without a word by the behavior of their wives,  2  as they observe your chaste and respectful behavior.  3  Your adornment must not be merely external—braiding the hair, and wearing gold jewelry, or putting on dresses;  4  but let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in the sight of God.

5 For in this way in former times the holy women also, who hoped in God, used to adorn themselves, being submissive to their own husbands; 6 just as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, and you have become her children if you do what is right without being frightened by any fear.

1Pe 3:1-6  In the same way, you wives, be submissive to your own husbands so that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, they may be won without a word by the behavior of their wives,  2  as they observe your chaste and respectful behavior.  3  Your adornment must not be merely external—braiding the hair, and wearing gold jewelry, or putting on dresses;  4  but let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in the sight of God.

Submission (hupotasso) is outward Adornment (kosmos) is inward

Submission (hupotasso) is outward hupotasso –To put in order under

1Ti 2:9-15  Likewise, I want women to adorn themselves with proper clothing, modestly and discreetly, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly garments, 10 but rather by means of good works, as is proper for women making a claim to godliness.  11 A woman must quietly receive instruction with entire submissiveness.  

12 But I do not allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man, but to remain quiet.  13 For it was Adam who was first created, and then Eve.  14 And it was not Adam who was deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression.  15 But women will be preserved through the bearing of children if they continue in faith and love and sanctity with self-restraint.

Tit 2:3-5  Older women likewise are to be reverent in their behavior, not malicious gossips nor enslaved to much wine, teaching what is good,  4  so that they may encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children,  5  to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be dishonored.

Adornment (kosmos) is inward Kosmos- an apt and harmonious arrangement or order

Rev 21:2  And I saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, made ready as a bride adorned for her husband.

Titus 2:10  not pilfering, but showing all good faith so that they will adorn the doctrine of God our Savior in every respect.

1Ti 2:9-10  Likewise, I want women to adorn themselves with proper clothing, modestly and discreetly, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly garments, 10 but rather by means of good works, as is proper for women making a claim to godliness. 

Spirit enabled behavior which is to be such that it causes the truth about God to be beautifully "decorated"

1Pe 3:1-6  In the same way, you wives, be submissive to your own husbands so that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, they may be won without a word by the behavior of their wives,  2  as they observe your chaste and respectful behavior.  3  Your adornment must not be merely external—braiding the hair, and wearing gold jewelry, or putting on dresses;  4  but let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in the sight of God.

5 For in this way in former times the holy women also, who hoped in God, used to adorn themselves, being submissive to their own husbands; 6 just as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, and you have become her children if you do what is right without being frightened by any fear.