Marriage and Family Alma 39:9

What is at the center of the wheel? What would happen to the wheel if the hub were removed?

Doctrinal Mastery Core Document Marriage and Family Read the first paragraph Underline what is central to Heavenly Father’s plan of salvation and to our happiness What is central to God’s plan of salvation and to our happiness? Why do you think marriage and family are central, or essential, to Heavenly Father’s plan of salvation and to our happiness?

Doctrinal Mastery Core Document Marriage and Family Read the last 3 paragraphs Underline commandments and responsibilities God has given to help us accomplish the purposes of marriage and family in His plan. In pairs read Then as a class ask: What commandments and responsibilities has God given to help us accomplish the purposes of marriage and family in His plan? How does obeying the law of chastity help us fulfill Heavenly Father’s plan for His children?

Marriage and Family Alma 39:9

Alma 39:9 Go no more after the lust of your eyes Mark it as a Doctrinal Mastery scripture Tag it under “Marriage and Family” Give the context then read as a class What did Alma counsel his son Corianton to do? What do you think it means to “go no more after the lusts of your eyes”? Point out the phrase “cross yourself” think about what that means as we watch the video on the next slide.

https://knowhy. bookofmormoncentral https://knowhy.bookofmormoncentral.org/content/what-does-the-alma- say-about-avoiding-sexual-sin Video explaining “crossing yourself”

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“Along with filters on computers and a lock on affections, remember that the only real control in life is self-control. Exercise more control over even the marginal moments that confront you. If a TV show is indecent, turn it off. If a movie is crude, walk out. If an improper relationship is developing, sever it. Many of these influences, at least initially, may not technically be evil, but they can blunt our judgment, dull our spirituality, and lead to something that could be evil. An old proverb says that a journey of a thousand miles begins with one step, so watch your step” (Jeffrey R. Holland, “Place No More for the Enemy of My Soul,” Ensign or Liahona, May 2010, 45). As we read look for ways we can exercise self control in order to live the law of chastity. How can this counsel by Elder Holland help us in our efforts to exercise self-control and live the law of chastity?

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Act in Faith Examine Concepts and Questions with an Eternal Perspective Seek Further Understanding through Divinely Appointed Sources

As Parker sits at the back of his biology classroom and waits for the teacher to come in, he notices his friend Jeff showing some students his cell phone. Parker is curious to know what Jeff is showing the others. “It must be something really interesting,” he thinks to himself. Then Jeff reaches over to show Parker his phone, and suddenly it’s clear that Jeff and the others are looking at pornography. “Check it out,” Jeff says. “My friend just sent me this.” In this moment, how can Parker choose to act in faith? Why might this be challenging to do?

Parker immediately turns away from Jeff’s phone and makes it clear that he doesn’t want to see the picture. Jeff responds, “What’s wrong with you?” Just then, the biology teacher walks into the classroom, and Jeff puts his phone away as he hurries back to his seat. As the day goes on Parker begins to wonder why so many of his friends are viewing pornography and seem okay with it. He has been taught and believes it to be spiritually damaging.

Parker confronts his friend about his concern, and his friend replies: “It’s not going to hurt us, we’re just having some fun. Loosen up.” How can Parker help his friends understand why he does not view pornography, and help them choose to avoid it as well? On the white board write: “Pornography is not going to hurt us. It is fun.” What worldly beliefs or assumptions does Parker’s friend have? To see the eternal perspective, What truths about the Plan of Salvation, marriage and family, and God’s commandments can help us understand why we should avoid pornography? How can these truths help us understand why Heavenly Father has commanded us not to use pornography? What are some divinely appointed sources we can turn to that could help us further understand why Heavenly Father has commanded us not to use pornography?

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