Recommended ground rules Recommended ground rules for discussion (See Youth Alive Participants’ manual, page 9) Youth Alive Training

1. Speak for yourself 1. Speak for yourself. Use the word “I,” not “we,” “you,” or “most people,” etc. Youth Alive Training

2. Option to pass or take risk 2. You do have the option to pass, but also the responsibility to take risks. Youth Alive Training

3. Support others 3. Support others, by showing you understand and care about them. Youth Alive Training

4. No putdowns 4. Don’t make critical put-downs or “killer” statements. Youth Alive Training

5. Confidential 5. Keep confidential what is shared in the group. Youth Alive Training

6. Listen 6. Listen when others are talking. Youth Alive Training

7. Be honest 7. Be as honest as possible with yourself and the members of your group. Youth Alive Training

8. Have fun but play safely 8. Have as much fun as possible, but play safely. Youth Alive Training

9. Expect unfinished business 9. Expect unfinished business. Not all can be done in one group session.   Youth Alive Training

Cluster group activity Develop a written list of ground rules Cluster Group Activity: Development of Ground Rules. Break into the various Colored-cluster groups again and develop a written list of ground rules on a poster or placard, which needs to be posted at the site of each Colored-cluster group meeting. (this is to allow adult and youth facilitators to be able to practice doing this when they conduct the Friendship Group session during the Youth Alive conference from Wednesday to Sabbath.)   Youth Alive Training

Friendship Group development Session 5: 3 Hours Session 5: 3 hours Youth Alive Training

Goal: To facilitate group bonding, gain confidence Needs: Tennis ball, feelings cube, power point slides, Youth Alive Participants’ Manual Goal: To learn practical techniques on facilitating group bonding and working together, and gain increased confidence in taking personal risks as leaders   Needs: 1. A small ball such as a tennis ball or foam ball 2. Supplies for active group games during “movement interludes”, including Feelings cubes (one per Colored-cluster group). 3. Power point slides 4. Youth Alive Participants’ Manual Youth Alive Training

Friendship Group (FG) goals Facilitate spiritual growth/development Learn the names of FG members Set FG ground rules that group has ownership and commitment to them Create a safe place for friendship Help everyone participate Discuss what participants are learning Offer opportunity to discuss issues and personal concerns Build connection/teamwork Friendship Group (FG) goals Facilitate spiritual growth/development Learn the names of FG members Set FG ground rules that group has ownership and commitment to them Create a safe place for friendship Help everyone participate Discuss what participants are learning Offer opportunity to discuss issues and personal concerns Build connection/teamwork Youth Alive Training

What are Friendship Groups? Most important activity in the program of Youth Alive Small group, gathering frequently, giving time for adult and youth to relax and be connected with one another Friendship Groups are the most important activity in the program of Youth Alive. This is a small group, gathering frequently, giving time for adults and youth to relax and be connected with one another. Some youth come from unhappy backgrounds, thus the Friendship Group especially in a local Youth Alive club, can truly become a good and positive peer support for them. It is a place where the participants get connected with one another. Youth Alive Training