SOL GORDON IMMATURE & MATURE LOVE
IMMATURE LOVE SIGNS MISERABLE! You are tired most of the time Love seems more like a burden than a joy Violence is part of the relationship You keep having thoughts like “Maybe things will get better” Your partner frequently makes promises that aren’t kept You feel MISERABLE!
MATURE LOVE SIGNS You have a lot of energy You have a sense of humor You really appreciate each other’s ideas Neither of you frequently asks “Are you sure you love me?” “Do you really care about me?” When you are together, you spend mostly of your time enjoyably and creatively
MATURE LOVE SIGNS FANTASTIC! You can talk about each other’s likes and dislikes You are a person, not a sex object You can spend a day alone with your partner (without television) and find it FANTASTIC!