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What the Bible says about Marriage The groom is “like an apple tree.” –Song of Solomon (2:3) The bride is “like a lily among thorns.” (2:2)

The Eden Formula for Marriage “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.” Genesis 2:24

Finding your “missing rib” God invented sex Sex was made to be shared within the covenant of heterosexual marriage. 13

“A threefold cord is not quickly broken.” “Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor.” Ecclesiastes 4:9 “A threefold cord is not quickly broken.” Ecclesiastes 4:12

The Eden Formula for Marriage “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.” Genesis 2:24

Love, Wedding and Sexuality in Marriage . . . Are God’s Special Gifts 18

But remember … the right time the right place the right person God’s Plan for Sexuality is meant for . . . the right time the right place the right person 19

What the Bible says about Sex “Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.” Hebrews 13:4 The 10 Commandments say: “You shall not commit adultery.” Exodus 20:14

No shame when meeting old partners Better spiritual growth Greater joy Increased security and stability 22

Commitment to your “one and only” Your oneness with spouse symbolizes your oneness with Christ It can allow no rivals 24

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“I take you to be my wedded Husband/Wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love, cherish, and to honor, till death do us part.” 26

Group Discussion What is the secret of a long, happy marriage? Identify characteristics of some couples you know who have blended their lives in a vibrant, satisfying, beautiful marriage relationship. Does a relationship with God have anything to do with having a more fulfilled, exciting, happy marriage? Discuss. Character Canvas Background

Group Discussion 3. Share with the group 5 positive characteristics of your spouse or special friend? 4. What do sexual relations have to do with commitment? Read and discuss 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 Character Canvas Background

Personal Reflections If married, how do you go about meeting each other’s emotional needs as a couple? What do you appreciate about your husband/wife? Make a list separately and share on a romantic evening. If single, what kinds of relationship activities can you be involved in that will enrich your life and the lives of others? Keep praying for the right companion. Character Canvas Background