Day 3 Patricia Hiner, RN

100% Pure and Simple

Definitions Responsibility Accountability Self-control Boundaries answerable to someone in authority Accountability answerable to a superior; is having to make it good if there is a loss Self-control the ability to control your own behavior, especially in terms of reactions and impulses Boundaries a limit of a subject or sphere of activity

Definitions Infatuation Love Commitment the unchanging care for another person through good and hard times when a person is bound to do certain things a strong attraction of one person for another person that may be short lived Infatuation Love Commitment

Definitions Infatuation a) a strong attraction of one person for another person that may be short lived Love c) the unchanging care for anther person through good and hard times Commitment b) when a person is bound to do certain things

Video Episode 3

Discussion When Lisa tells Trey she doesn’t want to have sex any more, what was the reason Lisa gave Trey? What about Trey’s reaction? What does responsibility mean? What does accountability mean? Regardless of the type of relationship – tradition vs. non-traditional the facts are the facts!

Discussion How are sexual feeling/urges different in boys and girls? How can you avoid getting thing “heated up”? What is the purpose of sex? What is the purpose of setting boundaries?

Discussion Would you say Trey and Lisa are experiencing infatuation, love, or both? What are some good traits that can be developed by refraining from sexual activity until in a permanent legal commitment? What are some negative or undesirable effects that having sex before a permanent commitment can have on a life-long relationship? What is the frequent outcome of a relationship established primarily on sexual satisfaction? Do you think a couple would stand a better chance in building a permanent commitment if the couple did not base their relationship primarily on sexual satisfaction? What if one partner become permanently disabled?

Activity Sit Face forward Remain silent until I return

Boundaries Why didn’t you stay within the boundaries? We need to recognize and RESPECT boundaries.

Activity Sequencing

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