Good Afternoon, what a great looking group we have here Good Afternoon, what a great looking group we have here! My name is Becky Wolery and I am very excited to be here. I appreciate this opportunity to present to all of you about bringing life back to your CIT trainings. I am a licensed head shrink as my colleagues tell me, or other known as a counselor and psychologist. Part of my passion as a counselor is working as an after hour crisis worker and co-chairing our Crisis Intervention Team with my partner in crime right here, Officer Ridg Medford and I’ll let him introduce himself.

Hello, my name is Crystal Copenhaver. That’s Copenhaver, not Copenhagen. I am a Jail Diversion Social Worker and a QMHP. That stands for Qualified Mental Health professional if you didn’t know. I work for the county mental health in Malheur County, Oregon and I live in a small town in Idaho. Looks like we’re trading smoke for humidity… ha…ha... I Co-coordinate our county’s CIT with Dr. Becky right over there and I am thrilled to be here today and hope you all find something useful from this presentation.

Becky Wolery, PsyD Officer Ridg Medford Death by Power Point Becky Wolery, PsyD Officer Ridg Medford

https://youtu.be/FJ5dbUCu2Ug

Liability/ Use of Force Family Feud Liability/ Use of Force You have a right to a lawyer, if you can not afford one you can always post your case on facebook and wait for all the know it alls to offer advice.

The top 8 most common calls in which excessive force is used. 1 4 7 2 5 8 3 6 1.Disturbance calls with mentally ill 2.Traffic stops 3.Unknown disturbances 4.Robbery calls 5..Trespass or unwanted calls 6.Barricaded subjects calls 7. Search warrants 8. Domestic Violence calls  

Disturbance calls with mentally ill person

Traffic stops

Unknown disturbances

Robbery calls

Search warrants

Trespass or unwanted calls

Barricaded subject calls

Domestic Violence calls

Yes! That was very loud Sir, but I said I wanted to hear your HEART! Geriatric Drag Race Yes! That was very loud Sir, but I said I wanted to hear your HEART!

Active Listening My wife said I don’t listen to her, at least I think that’s what she said. Big Bang My wife said I don’t listen to her, at least I think that’s what she said. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aP55nA8fQ9I https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4VOubVB4CTU (Everbody Loves Ray

https://positivechoices.org.au/students/mouse-party Mouse Party

“.…..and, with the proper medication they lived happily ever after.” Medication Ice Breaker-AA-Disorders “.…..and, with the proper medication they lived happily ever after.”

Man Therapy http://mantherapy.org/

Man Therapy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-gTw2_sYf4s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=efoyLr1urKc https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fwT16Ydg17U https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NXA_w7LdBqw Man Therapy

“Addicted” to Acting - Improv What the storybook failed to tell us is that Humpty was high on crack and thought he could fly!

Imagine a Party where everyone had a Personality Disorder…….. Face to Face Imagine a Party where everyone had a Personality Disorder……..

....Imagine a party where all the people had a……… ………PERSONALITY DISORDERS Donna danced into the party and immediately became the center of attention. With sweeping gestures of her arms and dramatic displays of emotion, she boasted about her career as an actress in a local theater group. During a private conversation, a friend inquired about the rumors that she was having some difficulties in her marriage. In an outburst of anger, she denied any problems and claimed that her marriage was "as wonderful and charming as ever." Shortly thereafter, while drinking her second martini, she fainted and had to be taken home. William wandered into the party, but didn't stay long. The "negative forces" in the room were unsettling to his "psychic soul-spot." The few guests he spoke to felt somewhat uneasy being with this aloof "space cadet." Sherry paraded into the party drunk and continued to drink throughout the night. Laughing and giggling, she flirted with many of the men and to two of them expressed her "deep affection." Twice during the evening she disappeared for almost half an hour, each time with a different man. After a violent argument with one of them, because he took "too long" to get her a drink, she locked herself into the bathroom and attempted to swallow a bottle of aspirin. Her friends encouraged her to go home, but she was afraid to be alone in her apartment. Winston spent most of the time talking about his trip to Europe, his new Mercedes, and his favorite French restaurants. People seemed bored being around him, but he kept right on talking. When he made a critical remark about how one of the woman was dressed - and hurt her feelings - he could not apologize for his obvious blunder. He tried to talk his way around it, and even seemed to be blaming her for being upset. Peter arrived at the party exactly on time. He made a point of speaking to every guest for five minutes. He talked mostly about technology and finance, and avoided any inquiries about his feelings or personal life. He left precisely at 10 PM because he had work to do at home. Before entering, Doreen watched the party for several minutes from outside through the window. Once she went in, she seemed very uncomfortable. When people tried to be nice to her, she looked guarded and distrustful. People quickly became uncomfortable with her habit of finding fault with everything little thing you said or did. She seemed to be picking fights with people. She didn't stay very long at the party. Margie didn't come to the party, even though she promised the hostess that she would bring the ice. The hostess was very upset that everyone had warm drinks. Harold wasn't invited to the party. No one really knows him very well because he rarely talks. In fact, he spends most of his time alone at home reading. Gary arrived a the party alone. Charming and sociable, he carried on conversations with several people, who clearly enjoyed his company. Midway through the party. He sneaks into the host’s bedroom and steals her most expensive jewelry. He rejoins the party and continues to be engaging and charming while feeling nor remorse.

DSM Characteristics of Several Personality Disorders Match up the following disorders with the descriptions of the party: Paranoid: suspicious, argumentative, paranoid, continually on the lookout for trickery and abuse, jealous, tendency to blame others, cold and humorless Schizoid: has few friends; a "loner"; indifferent to praise and criticism of others; unable to form close relationships; no warm or tender feelings for other people Sociopath: breaks rules and laws; takes advantage of other people for personal gain; feels little remorse or guilt; appears friendly and charming on the surface; often intelligent Schizotypal: also aloof and indifferent like the schizoid; magical thinking; superstitious beliefs; uses unusual words and has peculiar ideas; a very mild form of schizophrenia Borderline: very unstable relationships; erratic emotions; self- damaging behavior; impulsive; unpredictable aggressive and sexual behavior; monophobia; easily angered Histrionic: overly dramatic; attention seekers; easily angered; seductive; dependent on others; vain, shallow, and manipulative; displays intense, but often false emotions Narcissistic: grandiose; crave admiration of others; extremely self-centered; feel they are privileged and special; expects favors from others; emotions are not erratic Compulsive: perfectionists; preoccupied with details, rules, schedules; more concerned about work than pleasure; serious and formal; cannot express tender feelings Passive-Aggressive: indirectly expresses anger by being forgetful and stubborn; procrastinates; cannot admit to feeling angry; habitually late Anti-Social: characterized by a pervasive pattern of disregard for, or violation of, the rights of others.

Back to Back 911 Calls, Verbal De-escalation, Active Listening,

Trauma- TBI Brain Twisters

Blind Walk

Thank You! Dr. Becky Wolery deardr.becky@gmail.com Officer Ridg Medford ridg.medford@ontariooregon.org Thank You!