Mark Breslin

CONSENT IF YOU LOVE ME YOU WILL ALCOHOL/DRUGS SEXUAL DESIRE NEED TO BELONG CONSENT LONELINESS EVERYONE IS DOING IT Why do we consent? What influences us? What is our understanding of consent? Where do we learn this? WHO SAYS I CANT? I WANT TO SELF-ESTEEM

REASONS TO CONSENT IS IT THAT SIMPLE? Which of these are the important ones? Will your reason for giving or denying consent be influenced by any of these? Have we ever given consent for any of these reasons?

Alcohol/drugs

Everyone is doing it

If you love me you will

Who says I cant?

I’ve already had sex

In a relationship

I WANT TO

SEXUAL DESIRE

SELF-ESTEEM Who do you see when you look in the mirror? Is the need to need to belong so strong that you would consider giving consent to go under the scalpel? What is the pressure like to consent to being NORMAL/BEAUTIFUL

A NEED TO BELONG We all feel the need to belong What would you do to belong? Would we give consent to something just to belong?

LONELINESS

It’s All New To Me It was my first time, I didn’t know what was happening. You never know what you will do until your in the situation. Every situation is different. Do you remember the first time you gave your consent, what did you consent to? Did the situation influence your decision? Did you decision change in different situations? Did you learn from this? I can only learn from my mistakes.

Little Red Riding Hood What was little red riding hood really about? How has society changed this? Sexualization of young women loss of identity

Wits ! "Oh granny, I have to go badly. Let me go outside." "Do it in the bed, my child!" "Oh no, granny, I want to go outside." "All right, but make it quick." The werewolf attached a woollen rope to her foot and let her go outside. When the little girl was outside, she tied the end of the rope to a plum tree in the courtyard. The werewolf became impatient and said: "Are you making a load out there? Are you making a load?" Can you equate this situation to another? Can you work out what saved red riding hood? Young women need to be able to rediscover their wits, make choices that suit them, not others or society Be able to make mistake and learn from them To use their wits to keep them safer When he realized that nobody was answering him, he jumped out of bed and saw that the little girl had escaped. He followed her but arrived at her house just at the moment she entered