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ARR Married Life/Parenthood When are you ready? ARR Married Life/Parenthood

Marriage Readiness Stages of a relationship 1.) Gushy 2.) Game Playing 3.) Goal Directed Be sure to be in the goal-directed stage before planning to have a baby.

First Year Adjustments to each other’s day-today living habits. Intimacy, extended families, and the financial aspects of your new marriage. Time for building successful patterns of communication with each other, resolving conflicts, working out roles in the marriage, and forming a successful marriage partnership. A good marriage is based on knowing each other well.

Time + Effort = Stability Stability that time and effort can give a marriage can be jeopardized when a new baby enters the relationship too soon. Even a baby who is wanted and planned for adds major stress to a marriage. A huge increase in responsibility adds to an increase in disagreements, a change in marital roles, a strain on communication, a decrease in time together, financial strain, jealous, fatigue, and a temporary decrease in marital satisfaction. It is wise to postpone having your first baby until the marriage is stable, which may take a year or more. Having children strengthens stable marriages. Having a baby makes a weak relationship weaker

Social Readiness What are some of the things you like to do for fun with friends? Which of these activities could you do with a baby in your arms? Have you ever been to a restaurant where there has been a crying baby or screaming child? How did it make you feel? Could you really enjoy a movie when at any second your child could start crying or fussing and cause you to leave the movie early (or be asked to leave)? How likely or convenient is it to leave a child with a sitter every time you wanted to be with friends? When you say yes to parenthood, you say no to much of your social life. The dynamics of your social life will change. You may gain new friends that also have babies. The time you spend with your childless friends may change, as well.

Financial Readiness Initial expenses include thousands of dollars for doctor and hospital bills, food, diapers, clothing, crib, strollers, toys, etc. If both parents work, child care is a costly. The loss of time spent with the child during his/her formative years is a major issue. Most families need more than one income to survive. As the child grows older, expenses increase. Not only are there increased cost of clothing and food but increases in cost of living space, as you need a place with a play area, utilities, insurance, recreation, education, sports fee, dance and music lessons, savings for college, etc.

Emotional Readiness Are you ready to think of someone else other than yourself for the rest of your life? Do you resent having your time infringed upon? Do you get angry when your sleep is disturbed? Will it upset you when you can’t do what you want to do? Will you resent spending a lot of money on someone else (your child)? Do you like to share your things? How is your temperament? Do you get frustrated or angry easily? Are you a good listener and problem-solver? Can you communicate your needs and expectations? Are you ready to settle down to routines and responsibilities that are long lasting?

Moral Readiness Are your values and goals in life well established? What is your moral sense of what is right and wrong? You will be teaching these values to your children. Are your values and goals as a couple compatible? Positive parenting has a direct effect on our society, will you be teaching the next generation to be morally responsible?

Physical Readiness The health of the child depends on the health of the parents. Good nutrition, good health and freedom from alcohol, tobacco and other drugs, beginning long before conception, are important for both the father and mother. Are you preparing your body now for future parenthood? When is the most healthy age to become parents? Mothers that are too young and older mothers may have more complications. Age is less important for fathers.

Intellectual Readiness Do you have realistic expectations about childhood or do you think babies always smell good, are potty-trained by age two and go to sleep when you put them to bed? Do you understand the principles of child guidance and development? Do you know what to do if your baby cries, won’t eat or is afraid of the dark? Do you know why children behave as they do? Do you understand what children are like? And more importantly, why the are like they way the are? Do you understand the responsibilities and commitments of parenthood? Do you know that it is a 24-hour-a-day job with no weekends off, no vacations and no sick leave?

It is a lifetime commitment. Do you know? A parent’s job does not end when the children begin school, graduate, or move away from home; It is a lifetime commitment.