Parenting

QUIZ What is parenting? What are the considerations to consider in determining personal preparedness for parenthood (parenthood readiness)? Ex: emotional maturity

Toughest Job in the World!

What is parenting? The process of caring for children and helping them grow and develop.

What are some of the challenges? 24/7 Unpaid Letting children fail Allowing children to explore own likes/dislikes Always changing Often little to no training

What are some of the rewards? Joy and pride Role of importance Create meaningful relationships Impacts individuals, families and society

Parenthood Readiness Emotional Maturity Health Considerations (biological) Financial Educational Social

Emotional Maturity Being responsible enough to consistently put someone else’s needs before your own Not expecting anything in return Capable of controlling temper and other emotions

Health Considerations Prenatal nutrition is very important Maternal age is a consideration Optimal age for child bearing is 20-35 Some medical problems can affect the health of the child or parent’s ability to care for a child

Financial Concerns Raising a child is expensive Who will work vs care for baby? Childcare?

Educational Concerns How will a child impact a parents education if not yet complete? Raising a child is very time consuming, will continuing educational pursuits be possible?

Social Considerations Will the new parent be able to adjust to their new role, and its impact upon their social life?

Stages of Parenthood Six stages parents move through as they develop and change along with their children. Being aware and prepared for the various stages can allow more effective parenting which can lead to happier, more satisfied lives

Six Stages of Parenthood Image Making During pregnancy Parents begin to imagine themselves as parents

Six Stages of Parenthood Nurturing Birth to Age 2 Parents become emotionally attached to child May question relative worth of other priorities

Six Stages of Parenthood Authority Age 2- 4/5 Parents determine rules Clarified role as an authority figure

Six Stages of Parenthood Interpretive Age 4/5- 13 Parents rethink their role as parents Decide what knowledge, skills, and values the child needs

Six Stages of Parenthood Interdependent Adolescence Parents establish boundaries and find disciplinary methods appropriate for teens

Six Stages of Parenthood Departure Child leaves home Parents evaluate their parenting