Emotional Intelligence For...the most missional pastors I know ...Greg Wiens
Most of Emotional Intelligence lies below the water line...
EQ is not... Being emotional Sharing every emotion that you experience Impulsiveness
What is emotional Intelligence (EQ)? 1. Identify your own emotions 2. Identify others’ emotions 3. Manage your emotions 4. Manage others to emotions EQ originates in Culture of Origin EQ is dynamic
What is so important about eQ? Research More people will follow for EQ than IQ Beyond an IQ of 100 Fulfilled relationships Better Team performance Happier Resilience
Report from July 27, 2018... Research points to emotional intelligence as the critical factor that sets star performers apart from the rest of the pack. The connection is so strong that 90% of top performers have high emotional intelligence. On the flip side, just 20% of bottom performers are high in emotional intelligence. You can be a top performer without emotional intelligence, but the chances are slim
Recent Gallop Survey on the top 5 management failures Poor interpersonal and communication skills. Ineffective team leaders. Resistance to change. Disappointing results. Inability to see beyond their functional silo.
What is so important about eQ? Biblically King Saul King David John appears to possess higher Peter appears to possess lower Personally Qualifiers EQ is a major lid to cross cultural effectiveness
How do you develop EQ? Coaching for Emotional Intelligence by Wall Leadership and Self Deception by Arbinger Group A Failure of Nerve by Edwin Friedman Culture Maps by Erin Meyers Emotional Journaling Coaching by one who has high EQ
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