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Woman Puzzled by Boyfriend’s Behavior Dear Annie, I’m American, and boyfriend is British. John is a great guy. He’s funny and kind. He’s the perfect boyfriend… almost. I have just one complaint. When we go to parties, he doesn’t introduce me to people. I can’t understand why! It’s uncomfortable for me, but John won’t change. Please help! -Tracey from New York Dear Tracey, Don’t worry! There’s a simple reason for your boyfriend’s behavior. The customs for introducing people are different in the U.S. and the UK. At a party, Americans often walk up to a person they don’t know and say, “Hi, I’m John.” This is polite and friendly. For British people, however, it is too direct. British people usually first make small talk with a new person—they chat about the music, or the weather, or the food. At the end or the conversation, they may introduce themselves. Here are examples of typical introductions in the UK and the U.S.: Typical British Introduction: A: This food is delicious, isn’t it? B: Yes. Sam is a great cook! Half an hour later… A: Well, good chatting with you. I hope to see you again. Oh, my name’s Ben, by the way. Typical American Introduction: A: Hi, I’m Tim. B: Nice to meet you, Tim. Do you work with Emma? Maybe if you talk to John about this cultural difference, he’ll agree to Introduce you—the American way. But when you’re in the UK, you should agree to do things the British way. Good luck! -Annie
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