Love vs. Infatuation Which is which? How can we tell the difference? Is one better than the other?

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Love vs. Infatuation Which is which? How can we tell the difference? Is one better than the other?

Infatuation Definition: a passion, a fixation, or a strong crush Develops rather rapidly Based on limited characteristics Based on the emotion itself Is self-centered Can be multi-person centered Changes rapidly Loses touch with reality Largely outward or physical Can be a result of Insecurities Jealousy and possessiveness can show up

Love, on the other hand Is often grown into Is a choice Based on the whole person Focuses on the person with whom you are involved Is other-centered Demonstrates a deep commitment to a person Is a gradual development Maintains balance of life and priorities Involved the total relationship Is based in security, and in being secure Has a lot to do with Trust/Faith