Boundaries in Mission Settings

Establishing Clear Boundaries New Ministries are formulating a matrix that will color the quality of life for their entire history. Values are expressed through clear boundaries Safety of children Zero manipulation Roles have expectations Trust is critical to healthy community

Some Areas to Consider Safety of children and youth Professional guidelines Sexual boundaries Social Media Internet Pornography

4 characteristics of a boundary violation Roles are reversed Double bind occurs A secret is involved Professional Privilege is indulged

Safety for Children Relationship of adults to youth/children Background checks Facility issues

Professional Guidelines Friendships Gifts Professional Privilege

Sexual Boundaries Never appropriate to cross sexual boundaries with parishioners Watch for your own stress levels Find someone with whom you can express and check your feelings

Social Media Internet Pornography Scenarios Develop a strategy to address each situation. Be attentive to the values and the behaviors that you are establishing for the shape of your ministry.