Christian Chapel, Tulsa, OK RFK April 2017 Training Christian Chapel, Tulsa, OK Introducing TBRI Principles For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
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CHILDREN FROM HARD PLACES AND BRAIN DEVELOPMENT For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
Trauma-Induced Changes For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
TRUSTING RELATIONSHIPS HEAL THE BRAIN For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
Which is Your Strength? For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
CORRECTING! Empowering Connecting For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
CONNECTING! Empowering Correcting For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
“They could if they wanted to!” Willful disobedience? “They could if they wanted to!” For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
Increase Frustration! Increase Resistance! ADULT CHILD “POWER STRUGGLES” Increase Frustration! Increase Resistance! Enforce More Rules Oppositional Behaviors! “DOWNWARD SPIRALS” For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
Survival Behavior ADULT CHILD “FELT SAFETY” COMPASSIONATE UNDERSTANDING AFFIRM FEELINGS REDUCED FRUSTRATION RECOGNIZE FEARS GIVE VOICE USE WORDS For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
GIVING VOICE For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
When you see negative behaviors Encourage child by saying “Tell me what you need.” “How can I help you?” For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
GIVING VOICE TELLS THE CHILD: What I Say Matters My Needs Matter I Matter For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
TBRI® Connecting Principles For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
Mindfulness Strategies For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
Engagement Strategies Provide practical tools for relating to children in meaningful ways Facilitates healthy relationships Safe, healthy ways to connect with children in a language they understand For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
Engagement Strategies Valuing Eye Contact Authoritative Voice Tone Behavioral Matching Playful Interaction Appropriate/Healthy Touch For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
Empowering Principles
Physiological Strategies Meet internal needs For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
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Ecological - Environmental Strategies OR HOW DO WE BUILD TRUST? For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
Self-Regulation via the Senses For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
TBRI® Correcting Principles Proactive Strategies Responsive Strategies
CONNECTED CONTENT CHANGED BEHAVIOR For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
Proactive Strategies Practice and teach positive social skills during play PLAY changes the brain. For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
Proactive Strategy----CHOICES Giving choices gives a child control For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
Proactive Strategy----Teach Camp Values TBRI calls them Life Value Terms: *No Hurts *Use your Words *With Respect *Gentle and Kind *Asking or Telling For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
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The IDEAL Response Immediate Direct EFFICIENT – Levels of Response™ Action-Based Leveled at the Behavior For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
Which part of the IDEAL Response is most challenging for you? Which part of the IDEAL Response is easiest for you? For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
Manipulation and Control For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
Remember: Negative behaviors meet a need. Predictability and control are critical! Give appropriate control. Give up control for relationship. For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
Levels of Response Level 1: Playful Engagement Level 2: Structured Engagement Level 3: Calming Engagement Level 4: Protective Engagement For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
Level 1: Playful Engagement For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
Level 2: Structured Engagement For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
Level 3: Calming Engagement For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only
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Level 4: Protective Engagement For exclusive use at Royal Family KIDS Camp and Mentoring Club Training Only