Yourself, Your Relationships And Life The Color Code A New Way To See Yourself, Your Relationships And Life By Taylor Hartman, Ph. D.

RED Loyalty to task Committed Directed Logical Leadership Focused The Power Wielders Loyalty to task Committed Directed Logical Leadership Focused Proactive Pride (arrogance) Insensitive Poor Listener Tactless Rebellious Critical of Others Impatient

BLUE Self-righteous Judgmental Easily Depressed Controlling The Do-Gooders Self-righteous Judgmental Easily Depressed Controlling Unforgiving Suspicious Illogical Loyalty to People Committed Quality Sincere Honest Focused Moral Conscience

White Uncommitted Tolerant Stubborn Patience Dishonest Cooperation The Peace Keepers Uncommitted Stubborn Dishonest Lazy Uninvolved Dependent Directionless Tolerant Patience Cooperation Relaxed Understanding Balanced Obedient

Yellow Accepting Forgiving Friendly Optimistic Trusting Appreciative The Fun Lovers Accepting Forgiving Friendly Optimistic Trusting Appreciative Receptive Uncommitted Insensitive Obnoxious Irresponsible Rebellious Self-centered Permissive

RED BLUE WHITE YELLOW MOTIVE NEEDS WANTS Power Intimacy Peace Fun To look good (academically) To be good (morally) To feel good (inside) To look good (socially) To be right To be understood To be allowed their own space To be popular To be respected To be appreciated To be praised Approval Acceptance WANTS To hide insecurities (tightly) To reveal insecurities To withhold insecurities To hide insecurities (loosely) To please self To please others To please self/others To please others/self Leadership Autonomy Independence Freedom Challenging Adventure Security Contentment Playful Adventure

Personality Connections Uncomplementary Opposites BLUE RED Complementary Similarities Complementary Similarities Complementary Opposites WHITE YELLOW Comfortable Opposites

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