Assertiveness Statements Neutral Statements – Nonescalating statement in a neutral voice That may be true and … I think we both want to solve this problem, but we may see it differently. I need some time to think about that. I don’t think that is the issue right now… Empathetic Assertion – Assertive statements, but sensitive to other’s I can see how you may feel that way. I will still need … I can see how important this is to you… You might be right… I understand where you’re coming from… Self-Assertion – Standing up for your rights, feelings, and beliefs I feel ____ when you ___; I’d prefer that ____. I think _______ I would like a few minutes to finish… I’m confused about… Help me understand … Workable Compromise – Your assertion takes into account the others’ feelings How do you feel about doing ____? That would be very helpful to me. I would like to suggest that we try… How do you feel about that?