Hard to list American customs So many situations relinquish bus seat, give gifts.. Variation in customs geographic difference such as… religious backgrounds ethnic identities

Different Customs Greeting people when being introduced A Japanese businessman:bow An American businessman:shake hands Lots of differences materials customs

Guidelines on American customs Some unacceptable behaviors Be punctual—give notice Treat people courteously Personal space: arm’s length except 1.hit 2.hug 3.be told to be closer talk face to face Avoid bowing discomfort for showing deep respect

Devotion to individualism Trained to be separate individuals The way children are treated make choices… as separate human beings Parents’ objective responsible & self-reliant individual Live at home immature. unable to be independent

American value on individualism Heroes who stand out from the crowds People who overcome adversity: Hellen, Attitude to their parents: not much respect Family Relation.: bilogical Certain phrases to show the individualism Value on privacy

Directness and Assertiveness Phrases to show directness Conflicts settlement: honest & straightfor. Meaning of ASS.: plain & direct Reactions to indirectness non-verbal: body & facial Asians, Americans and Arabs/Latins

Friendship in America Close friends intimate invol. & strong obligation Acquaintances lower invol. & obligat. Occupants of roles Fear close involvement

Friendliness & Friendship Examples of informality hi, first name… Difference between friendliness & friendship warm & kind, private, slow to make friends How do foreigners feel

Differences in socializing Reasons for very few close friends busy, move residence self-reliant individuals What to do in gathering take some activities, not just sit and talk exceptions