13 Great Sex for Life.

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13 Great Sex for Life

History of Sex The Garden of Eden 4th Century After the Fall Sex is perfect After the Fall Sex is complicated 4th Century Sex is sinful 17th Century Sex is dirty

History of Sex: 20th Century 1900-1960 – Sex is fun 1970 – Sex if free 1980 – Sex is serious 1990 – Sex should be safe 2000 – Sex is for yourself

The Truth About Sex: Sex is complicated but not impossible

The Truth About Sex: Sex is sinful but not within marriage

The Truth About Sex: Sex is dirty but clean between married people

Sex is fun The Truth About Sex: and also joyful for God and the angels who watch over those who are married

Sex is free The Truth About Sex: and without punishment for those who engage in married love

Sex is serious The Truth About Sex: a serious sign of a married commitment

The Truth About Sex: Sex is safe if confined to marriage

Sex is for self The Truth About Sex: in the full revelation of self to our marriage partner

Sex outside of marriage SPOILS THE Sex inside of marriage

God’s Idea of Sex Sex is good

18 Let your fountain be blessed, And rejoice in the wife of your youth 18 Let your fountain be blessed, And rejoice in the wife of your youth. 19 As a loving hind and a graceful doe, Let her breasts satisfy you at all times; Be exhilarated always with her love. - Proverbs 5:18-19

Sex is for marriage only God’s Idea of Sex Sex is good Sex is for marriage only “You shall not commit adultery. - Exodus 20:14

Sex is unselfish affection God’s Idea of Sex Sex is good Sex is for marriage only Sex is unselfish affection

2 But because of immoralities, each man is to have his own wife, and each woman is to have her own husband. 3 The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband. - I Corinthians 7:2-3

Sex is uninterrupted God’s Idea of Sex Sex is good Sex is for marriage only Sex is unselfish affection Sex is uninterrupted Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. - I Corinthians 7:5

Why Sex Stops Illness / Incapacity Ignorance Lack of Imagination Habit

Communication is the key!

Communication is key ~ The best way to improve sex is to improve the way we communicate about sex.

7 Things to say: “Tell me how to please you.”

7 Things to say: “Tell me how to please you.” “I want to make love… for fun.”

7 Things to say: “Tell me how to please you.” “I want to make love… for fun.” “Seeing your body excites me... don’t hide it from me.”

7 Things to say: “Tell me how to please you.” “I want to make love… for fun.” “Seeing your body excites me... don’t hide it from me.” “Don’t force me to do what I can’t do yet.”

7 Things to say: “Tell me how to please you.” “I want to make love… for fun.” “Seeing your body excites me... don’t hide it from me.” “Don’t force me to do what I can’t do yet.” “I wish you would initiate sex for a change.”

7 Things to say: “Tell me how to please you.” “I want to make love… for fun.” “Seeing your body excites me... don’t hide it from me.” “Don’t force me to do what I can’t do yet.” “I wish you would initiate sex for a change.” “Be kinder to me.”

7 Things to say: “Tell me how to please you.” “I want to make love… for fun.” “Seeing your body excites me... don’t hide it from me.” “Don’t force me to do what I can’t do yet.” “I wish you would initiate sex for a change.” “Be kinder to me.” “Try to understand what stimulates me.”

Emotional stimulation before physical stimulation Women: Cyclical in nature Emotional stimulation before physical stimulation

Ongoing internal stimulation Visually motivated Men: Ongoing internal stimulation Visually motivated

The key is to find a balance between needs and ability to meet desire.

All the mysteries about our own sexuality can be expressed and satisfied and made acceptable to ourselves, our partner and God who loves us, even when we are completely naked before Him.