Home for the Holidays: Self-Pleasuring Tips

The end-of-year holidays are rolling around, and for many people that means traveling to see relatives – and often staying overnight (or several nights) with parents, siblings, or others. It can be a wonderful time to catch up on things and to see loved ones one hasn’t seen in a long time. But for some it can also be a time with perhaps a bit of familial tension or a situation in which it’s difficult to find some time to just be alone for a while. This doesn’t usually have too big of an impact on male organ care issues for a guy – except perhaps in the area of self-pleasuring, which can become an issue, especially for men who self-stimulate frequently.

Even for guys who hardly ever self-stimulate, the tension that some people find when in a family situation may make them wish they could relieve some stress – and self-pleasuring is one of the easiest ways to get some stress relief. So for men who need some self-pleasuring time during the holidays, the following should be considered: Check locks. Unless a guy doesn’t care if Aunt Petunia walks in on him while he’s fondling his member, he needs to check the lock on any room (bathroom, bedroom, den, etc.) in which he plans to seek relief from self- pleasuring. Even if it’s the bedroom he grew up in and in which he self- pleasured daily all through adolescence, it pays to check.

BYOL. It’s best to bring your own lubricant, rather than assume you’ll be able to sneak some petroleum jelly or hand lotion from someone else. First, it saves one the embarrassment of being caught borrowing the creme. Second, many men have their own favorite lubricants anyway, so why settle for second best?

Be hygienic. Even if staying in the same bedroom from his adolescence, where it was not unusual for a guy to fall asleep unclothed immediately after releasing seed, a guy needs to clean up after himself. If he tends to be a “long distance” shooter, releasing seed all over not just himself but nearby bedclothes, he should place a towel (ideally one he has brought from home for this purpose) underneath to keep male seed from getting on sheets. He should also wipe all the male seed off of himself (especially if he plans to sleep unclothed). If a towel isn’t available, be sure to have Kleenex or paper towels around for a thorough cleanup. That includes disposing of the Kleenex or paper towels as well so that one’s host doesn’t have to. Also, be sure to wipe creme off of the member and hands after finishing.

Watch the noise. If a guy lives alone, he may have gotten used to letting himself go during a self-pleasuring session – which is great. Moans, cries, expletive-filled oaths, noisy bedsprings – all of these are great when alone. But when visiting, pull things back. Keep the noise down a bit to avoid making others uncomfortable – or making oneself the subject of endless jokes by one’s brother. Take advantage of the surroundings. If revisiting his old home, it may be that some of the memories that are dug up may be of the more exciting variety. If so, use these during those self-pleasuring sessions; it may add some new spice to the routine and awaken other memories for future use.

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