Inspiration Communication
People are Different
Communication Styles Controls Driver Analytical Expressive Amiable Control Responsive Ask Assertive Control Responsive Tell Assertive Tell Assertive Ask Assertive Expressive Amiable Emote Responsive Tell Assertive Emote Responsive Ask Assertive Emotes
A B C Observable Behavior Traits B Under-the-Bracket Behavior (Say/Do) C Judgments Honest Intelligent Arrogant Motivated Self-Centered Sincere Critical I like him. He annoys me. She interests me. He irritates me. I distrust her. I hate him. I trust him. Observable Behavior Say Do Quiet Slower-paced Facially controlled Monotone voice Indirect eye contact Casual posture Leans back - Loud - Faster-paced - Facially animated - Inflected voice - Direct eye contact - Rigid posture - Leans forward
Assertive Behaviours Verbal behaviours Non-Verbal behaviours Ask Assertive Tell Assertive Slower … Pace of Speech … Faster Less … Quantity of Speech … More Quieter … Volume of Speech …Louder ASKS TELLS Relaxed … Use of Hands … Directive Lean Back … Body Posture … Lean Forward Indirect … Eye Contact … Direct Ask Assertive Tell Assertive Non-Verbal behaviours
Key Characteristics of the Social Styles Analytical Driving CON TROLS Need: To Be Right Need: Results Orientation: Thinking Orientation: Action Growth Action: To Declare Growth Action: To Listen ASKS TELLS Amiable Expressive EMOTES Need: Personal Security Need: Personal Approval Orientation: Relationships Orientation: Spontaneity Growth Action: To Initiate Growth Action: To Check
SOCIAL STYLE ModelTM Analytical Driving CONTROLS ASKS TELLS Amiable Serious Exacting Indecisive Logical Driving Independent Formal Practical Dominating CONTROLS ASKS TELLS Amiable Dependable Supportive Pliable Open Expressive Animated Forceful Opinionated Impulsive EMOTES
Key Characteristics of the Social Styles Analytical Driving CON TROLS Need: To Be Right Need: Results Orientation: Thinking Orientation: Action Growth Action: To Declare Growth Action: To Listen ASKS TELLS Amiable Expressive EMOTES Need: Personal Security Need: Personal Approval Orientation: Relationships Orientation: Spontaneity Growth Action: To Initiate Growth Action: To Check
Versatility Low High Versatility Versatility W X Y Z Behaviours Seen as Focusing on My Tension Behaviours Seen as Focusing on Others’ Tension W X Y Z Low Versatility High Versatility Versatility — A measure of the level of social endorsement accorded to an individual by others.