CHILD TRAINING. illustration: junior & bedtime apologize > inform > follow through The parents’ choice: –they never obey –they obey after you scream –Or.

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CHILD TRAINING

illustration: junior & bedtime apologize > inform > follow through The parents’ choice: –they never obey –they obey after you scream –Or only after saying it over & over & over –Or the 1st time, and to calm instructions (w/o yelling, nagging, badgering, etc.) 7. Training them to disrespect instructions given calmly

8. failing to use rod AND reproof Just rod? [learns… what?] Just reproof? [kid at walmart] value in “the lecture” –conscience –anticipation “The rod and reproof bring wisdom, but a child who gets his own way brings shame to his mother” Prov

9. fathers “discouraging,” “provoking to wrath” “Fathers, provoke not your children, that they be not discouraged” -Col “fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but nurture them in the cahstening and admonition of the Lord” -Eph.6.4 criticism … or nothing expecting talents beyond their capacity fluctuating boundaries based on your mood [Illust.: cattle fence]

rejoice in the wife of your youth. Prov The father of the righteous will greatly rejoice; And he...will have joy of him. Let your father and your mother be glad, And let her rejoice who gave birth to you. Prov A joyful heart makes a cheerful face, But when the heart is sad, the spirit is broken... a cheerful heart has a continual feast… Better is a dish of vegetables where love is Than a fattened ox served with hatred. Prov nasb the law of kindness is on her tongue. Prov A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones. Prov esv Ga.5.22 Love, Joy, Peace… 10. failing to parent with joy

11. Settling for situation control instead of training the child. twinkie brat - Michael & Debbie Pearl / To Train up a Child Brianne & the car seat / Zach & the pants “live altering experience” – nipped every defiance / improved behavior / happier MERE CONTROL vs. TRAINING (& what results?) “ Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he is old he will not depart from it” Pr.22.6 TRAIN THEIR HEARTS “still standing up on the inside”? … job’s not done

PARENTSPARENTS Take the time… Teach them to do right Train them to do right EXPECT them to do right

12. Mistaking “taking them to church” for “bringing them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord” Eph. 6.4 Deut. 6.7 “You shall teach them diligently to your sons and shall talk of them when you sit in your house and when you walk by the way and when you lie down and when you rise up”

13. thinking “if we don’t allow this, they might rebel and leave the church” what good is being “in church” if they aren’t in the Lord? -Rev.3.14ff “do you not know that friendship with the world is hostility toward God?” -James 4.4 entertainment? attire? interests? And start training EARLY