FAMILY RELATIONSHIP SEMINAR. 1. HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARENTS? A. Loving and close B. Distant C. Cold D. Hostile.

Slides:

Advertisements

Similar presentations

Bullying By Y1.

Advertisements

Abortion Part Four.

Dealing with Difficult Parents. Understanding Parents Why do they complain? In groups discuss and list possible complaints made by parents?

This is a powerful message in our modern society. We seem to have lost our bearing & our sense of direction.

Bell Work Read textbook pages “Conflict Resolution Skills”

Parenting Teens Welcome. In this you will be exploring how to best respond when we are upset with our kids with a focus on listening first to them, then.

Telling lies * Things to think about * What are lies?

Communication Skills I Statements You idiot!. Conflict Resolution Definition: The process of ending a conflict by cooperating and problem solving.

How to Say “No” and Keep a Good Relationship

On the road to motherhood Aðalbjörg Gunnarsdóttir.

Visualizing Good readers are constantly visualizing and creating their own mental movie while they read.

God’s Children Babies come in every size, shape and color. Some are cuter than others and some have more personality than others, but they all have one.

Maltseva Aloyna, 9th form

Family and Social Health

The Child Jesus Enters the Temple. Honor Thy Mother and Father How many times do we answer our parents rudely? When they ask us to do something, do we.

Balance Grief with Hope April 3. Think About It … What are ways people respond to grief? Today’s lesson speaks to the issue of finding our way through.

“To Love and to Cherish” May 16. Think About It … Recall some famous television couples What positive and negative aspects of marriage were portrayed.

INTERPERSONAL CONFLICT

Learning Objectives All – List reasons why religion can cause conflict within a family. Most – Explain how religion can cause conflict within families.

Can I Really Save My Marriage? Save Your Marriage Today 1.

SEPA Session 4: Ways To Improve Communication With Our Partners

It begins with me… Feeling good about yourself and knowing that you deserve healthy relationships is VERY important! See the good in yourself and focus.

Ten Habits Highly Healthy Homes of. Ten Habits Highly Healthy Homes of.

“HONOURING MY PARENTS”. Ezekiel 22:7 (NLT) ‘Father and mothers are contemptuously ignored’.

The Fight of the Two Wolves An old Indian tells his granddaughter:

1. My hands are small; please don’t expect perfection whenever I make a bed, draw a picture, or throw a ball. My legs are short; please slow down so that.

The Lord’s Prayer 1. Who wrote the Lord’s Prayer? Jesus taught us the Lord’s Prayer See Luke 11:1 on next page:

Honour your parents, it’s pleasing to God Exodus 20 v 12.

The First Command- ment m/2007/07/10-commandments-of- supporting-your-family.jpg.

Mind, Body, and Spirit Retreats For Young People

Building friendships without tearing them down

Adult Support: 1. You are babysitting a group of children while their parents are attending a meeting. One of the children.

Importance of Parents.

St. Mary’s Coptic Orthodox Church Sunday School Grade 2.

Communication Skills with Friends & Family

Draw!Act It!Think! Talk it Out! True or False?

Chapter 29 The Healthy Family. © Copyright 2005 Delmar Learning, a division of Thomson Learning, Inc.2 Chapter Objectives 1.Explain when and how the concept.

1.  3:00-4:00  Introduction  4 conflict management skills  4:00-4:15 Break  4:15-5:15  4 conflict management skills (continued)  Preparation for.

Growing pains Brief introduction: Growing pains was on TV from 1985 to 1992, a total of seven years, and it told over one hundred and sixty different.

Assertiveness Training

My section is about the prevention of suicide. It tells the Do’s and Don'ts to do in this situation. It also includes the important things a friend can.

Aleatra Nading and Nina Halverson.  Helen Jamison is first year, second grade teacher at C.E Connors Elementary School  Her classroom strategies and.

Children and Divorce.

Definition: The process of ending a conflict by cooperating and problem solving.

Yellow Card Discipline and Setting Boundaries. Tonight’s Objectives  Understand that testing limits is a natural human behavior  Develop skills and.

Monday, 21 October 2013 Maria and Father Learning objectives: To identify aspects of Maria’s and Bruno’s father’s character. To use discussion skills to.

I have very little money ! How can I manage to live on it ? 1.

This Book is about This book is about four different girls who have four unique problems. They are all working through their problems while Claudia.

Family magazine. Family values Family is a support of every people. If you have some problems in your life, your family will help you. So, every family.

Тема: Can we learn to live in peace? Conflict resolution 1.

1 st clue to be told by the spiritist teacher: To thank everything that we have and receive everyday is the meaning of this virtue. What is it called?

Sermon INTRODUCTION Home Grown Resolutions Parenting By Grace.

HONOR YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER "Honor your father and mother, so that you may live long in the land...” Exodus 20:12.

Substance Abuse and Family Functioning By Tara Spoerl.

Skills For Effective Communication

Why the Christian Life Is Better Nov. 7. Think About It  What people, things, or experiences in life bring you comfort and peace of mind?  God promises.

Elements of conflict 1. DEFINITION Conflict is an expressed struggle between at least two interdependent parties who perceive incompatible goals, scarce.

Personal Mission Statement Strategies for Success Summer Quarter September 19, 2008.

In the Heart of the Family. Family All people are born into families Loving one’s family is natural obligation We should do it, even if we had never heard.

Family Bonding FACS Essentials. Walk a mile in my shoes... Family relationships can be difficult! It is important that we communicate and work through.

Teacher: Remember, Jesus walks with us always. Here is his message for us today You shall love the Lord your God with all your hear, and with all your.

Genesis 25 and 27 The Real MVP. MVP moms Isaac prayed to the L ORD on behalf of his wife, because she was childless. The L ORD answered his prayer, and.

It’s not that uncommon to feel like you can’t relate to your parents.

The True Story Of Joni Eareckson Tada By Becky Kew – Download from

Parenting With Developing Effective Parent/Child Communication Presented by BRES Counselors Amy Cunningham and Robin Vaneman.

THE STORY OF MARY AND MARTHA LUKE 10 VERSES By Becky KewPublished at

МО «ГУНИБСКИЙ РАЙОН» МКОУ «РУГУДЖИНСКАЯ СОШ ИМ. МУСАЕВА С. И.» РАБОТА НА КОНКУРС «ЛУЧШИЙ ПРОЕКТ НА ИНОСТРАННОМ ЯЗЫКЕ» ПО ТЕМЕ «ПРОБЛЕМА МОЛОДЕЖИ» АВТОР:

FRIENDS. What is a Friend?  A friend is someone you like and who likes you.  A friend is someone you can talk to.  A friend is a person who shares.

Life at Home May 7.

Destructive and Constructive Communication

Presentation transcript:

FAMILY RELATIONSHIP SEMINAR

1. HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARENTS? A. Loving and close B. Distant C. Cold D. Hostile

2. HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE YOUR COMMUNICATION WITH YOUR PARENTS? A.Gut level B.Share ideas and opinions but not your personal issues. C.Communicate facts about others. D.Superficial E. Hostile

QUESTIONS You can text message me on Whatsapp or mobile Write on a piece of paper on your table during the seminar so that we can answer the questions

OBJECTIVES Why should we honour and obey our parents? What does obey and honour your parents mean? How should we relate to our parents? How should we communicate with our parents?

CASE STUDY1 John is a single child of a couple. He shares with his friend, ‘My parents do not seem to understand me. They treat me like an eight year old child. It is so hard to communicate with them. They simply won’t listen. How can I honour my parents who constantly nag me to do this and that and refuse to listen to my point of view?’

QUESTION Why should we obey and honour our parents when they are so demanding?

WE SHOULD OBEY AND HONOUR OUR PARENTS BECAUSE God instructs us to love and obey our parents. (Eph 6:1-2) Our parents love us. There is a promise with the commandment. (Exodus 20:12)

CASE STUDY 2 Rebecca is a fiercely independent youth, she likes to go to bed late and so often has difficulty waking up in the morning to attend school. Her parents tried to get her to go to bed early by imposing bedtime rules. Rebecca was upset because she feels that she is wide awake and functions best after midnight. She is infuriated by her parents’ midnight curfew on her internet usage. She says to her parents, “I am not going to listen to you! This is my life and I am going to do what I like with it. Keep your advice to yourself.”

WHAT DOES IT MEAN BY HONOURING OUR PARENTS? Learn to be polite and courteous It means listening to them. We must help them to trust us.

CASE STUDY 3 Mary’s father is a very successful businessman and he wants Mary to follow his footstep and study Commerce. But Mary is not keen at all. This has caused a lot of conflict within the family since Mary wants to study Arts and become a school teacher. Her parents suggest she should do law since she enjoy Arts. Mary does not want to do law. She is getting very frustrated because her parents are becoming very militant about what she should be studying at university.

QUESTION If you were Mary, how would you respond? How can Mary resolve this hostile situation?

HOW DO WE DEAL WITH COMMUNICATION GAP? We need to understand: Parents want the best for their children. Their children’s’ success are their success They feel that they know better than their children what is best for them.

SOLUTIONS Two way communications at an open, friendly, genuine level will help the situation. Explain the reason why you do not want to do law or commerce to your parents, and not just object because they suggest the idea. Willing to listen to your parents’ ideas. Pray that God will help both you and your parents to trust in his providence.

CASE STUDY 4 Jane and her brother’s parents have been fighting over the years. One night her mother told Jane that she and her father were getting a divorce. Her world was shattered. She became angry and sad at the same time. She felt that she was to be blamed for her parent’s divorce because they often argue about parenting issues. She became cold and distant towards her parents and refused to talk to them as she felt that Christians should never divorce for the bible said so.

QUESTIONS What do you think of Jane’s feeling? How should Jane deal with the situation?

HOW SHOULD WE RELATE TO ONE ANOTHER IN THE FAMILY WHEN RELATIONSHIP BREAKDOWN? Come to terms with our own feeling and talk to someone older and wiser. Know that this is not our fault that our parents develop relationship issues. Not to be judgemental about our parents. Accept their decision and learn to live with the situation.

Q&A

SUMMARY God loves us & He commanded us to love one another. Parent chid relationship resemble our relationship with God. Mend our relationship today. Show respect and love our parents, communicate with them.