Filling Up the Bucket How Leaders Build, Maintain, and Restore Trust
Trustworthy = Honesty
Trustworthy = Being Worthy of Follower Trust
Leadership and Followership What do “followers” in an organizational setting have to trust about their leaders and their organization? That you mean what you say and will “walk the talk” That you have their best interest at heart That you know what you’re doing You’ll give them every chance to be successful and to grow That their hard work will be recognized and appreciated That they will be treated fairly and consistently That the organization will live it’s espoused values and accomplish its mission
Integrity Intentions Ability Trust Information Sharing More Effective Teams Enhanced Productivity The “Trust” Process
Integrity Intentions Ability Trust Less Satisfied Less Committed Lower Task Performance Few OCB’s Higher Turnover The “Trust” Process
Integrity Intentions Ability Trust Information Sharing More Effective Teams Enhanced Productivity The “Trust” Process
Integrity HonestyConsistencyHumilityCourage “My life is an indivisible whole, and all my activities run into one another... My life is my message.” -Mahatma Gandhi “Whoever is careless with the truth in small matters cannot be trusted with important matters.” -Albert Einstein
Integrity Do I genuinely try to be honest in all situations Do I “walk the talk” Am I clear and consistent about my most important values Do I keep my commitments Am I willing to admit when I’ve made a mistake and learn from it “Whether you’re on a sports team, in an office, or a member of a family, if you can’t trust one another there’s going to be trouble” - Joe Paterno
Integrity Do I genuinely try to be honest in all situations Do I “walk the talk” Am I clear and consistent about my most important values Do I keep my commitments Am I willing to admit when I’ve made a mistake and learn from it
Integrity Intentions Ability Trust Information Sharing More Effective Teams Enhanced Productivity The “Trust” Process
Intentions Motives Evaluate and Purify you motivesAgenda Publicize your IntentionsBehavior Let Refined Intentions Guide Behavior “Having spent many years trying to define the essentials of trust, I arrived at the position that if two people say two things to each other and mean them, then there was the basis for real trust. The two things were ‘I mean you no harm’ and ‘I seek your greatest good.’” - Jim Meehan, British Psychologist and Poet “I feel that you have to be with your employees through all their difficulties, that you have to be interested in them personally. I want them to know that Southwest will always be there for them.” -Herb Kelleher
Integrity Intentions Ability Trust Information Sharing More Effective Teams Enhanced Productivity The “Trust” Process
Ability Play to your strengths Be honest about shortcomings and do something about it Trust-Ability “Leaders come in many forms, with many styles and diverse qualities. There are quite leaders and leaders one can hear in the next county. Some find strength in eloquence, some in judgment, some in courage.” - John Gardner “Leadership without mutual trust is a contradiction in terms.” - Warren Bennis
Trust - Ability Share Information Forthrightly and With Transparency Treat People Like They Matter Own and Correct Mistakes Behave Loyally Don’t Avoid Unpleasant Realities Clarify Expectations Create Cultures of Accountability Be the First to Trust “The best way to find out if can trust somebody is to trust them.” - Ernest Hemingway “We're paying the highest tribute you can pay a man. We trust him to do right. It's that simple.” - Harper Lee, Author “To Kill a Mockingbird”
“Enemies of Trust” Inconsistent Messages Inconsistent Standards Misplaced Benevolence Not Trusting Elephants in the Room Communication Vacuums “I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you.” - Friedrich Nietzsche “No trust given, no trust received.” - Lao Tzu
Restoring Trust Share Information forthrightly and with Transparency Treat people like they matter Own and Correct Mistakes Behave loyally Don’t avoid unpleasant realities Clarify Expectations Create Cultures of Accountability Be the First to Trust Integrity Ability Intentions Trust Audit
Figure out what Happened Determine Depth and Breadth of “Trust Loss” Own Up to the Violation Quickly instead of ignoring or downplaying it Discover what you must do to rebuild Trust Don’t over extend “Our approach is based on the major findings of 20 years of research—that trust between managers and employees is the primary defining characteristic of the very best workplaces.” - Great Places to Work Institute
Filling Up the Bucket How Leaders Build, Maintain, and Restore Trust