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Are You SMARTER Than a Social Worker? Healthy Relationships Dating Rights Sexual Harassment Love Shouldn’t Hurt Dating Violence Who Can Help? Power and Control Sexual Respect Sexual Violence Good Boundaries Million Dollar Question $1,000$1,000 $300,000$300,000 $175,000$175,000 $25,000$25,000 $50,000$50,000 $100,000$100,000 $2,000$2,000 $5,000$5,000 $10,000$10,000 $500,000$500,000

Dating Violence What kind of behavior could be considered a sign of relationship abuse? extreme jealousy Good communication flirting Holding hands

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Not So Fun Fact about Dating Violence! There is violence in 25% of teenage relationships Violence can include: physical abuse, verbal abuse, emotional abuse, mental abuse or sexual abuse Coercion (using pressure or guilt) is a common tactic of abusers Girls may be the dominant partner 50% of the time There is violence in 25% of teenage relationships Violence can include: physical abuse, verbal abuse, emotional abuse, mental abuse or sexual abuse Coercion (using pressure or guilt) is a common tactic of abusers Girls may be the dominant partner 50% of the time

Healthy Relationships A healthy relationship between two people includes: One partner is in control manipulation Respect for each other’s values Advise from others

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Fun Facts about Healthy Relationships! Healthy relationships include partners who understand and appreciate each other’s personal values Good communication is an important part of healthy relationships Time is spent with friends and family as well as their partner in a healthy relationship Healthy relationships include partners who understand and appreciate each other’s personal values Good communication is an important part of healthy relationships Time is spent with friends and family as well as their partner in a healthy relationship

Love Shouldn’t Hurt When drugs and alcohol are mixed with dating violence, it usually results in: Things working out More violence Good times The blame game

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Not So Fun Facts about Why Love Shouldn’t Hurt! Drugs and alcohol may make a violent situation worse, but they are a FACTOR, not the cause The only cause to dating violence is power and control of one partner over another Isolation – discouraging your partner from support systems like friends and family– is one of the ways that love can be unhealthy Drugs and alcohol may make a violent situation worse, but they are a FACTOR, not the cause The only cause to dating violence is power and control of one partner over another Isolation – discouraging your partner from support systems like friends and family– is one of the ways that love can be unhealthy

Dating Rights In a dating relationship, you have the right to: nothing Lose control Remain silent Change your mind

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Fun Facts about Dating Rights! Everyone has the right to be safe in a dating relationship Everyone has the right to end a relationship without retaliation Everyone has the right to change their decisions about relationships – including sexual activity Everyone has the right to be safe in a dating relationship Everyone has the right to end a relationship without retaliation Everyone has the right to change their decisions about relationships – including sexual activity

Sexual Harassment Touching someone’s body uninvited, getting in someone’s body space, and “pantsing” are all examples of: Practical jokes Inappropriate sexual contact Rape Ways to show love

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Not So Fun Facts about Sexual Harassment! Sexual harassment is unwanted touching, groping, name calling or rumor spreading Sexual harassment is often used to embarrass or make someone feel uncomfortable and intimidated Sexual harassment can be verbal, physical or emotional It is a crime Sexual harassment is unwanted touching, groping, name calling or rumor spreading Sexual harassment is often used to embarrass or make someone feel uncomfortable and intimidated Sexual harassment can be verbal, physical or emotional It is a crime

Good Boundaries In a relationship, emotional or physical, no means ________. yes Convince me maybe NO!

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Fun Facts about Good Boundaries in Relationships! Boundaries can be physical, emotional or sexual Boundaries are communicated between partners verbally and physically Respecting your partner’s boundaries is a part of a healthy relationship Boundaries can be physical, emotional or sexual Boundaries are communicated between partners verbally and physically Respecting your partner’s boundaries is a part of a healthy relationship

Sexual Violence Any time someone is forced to have sex or participate in sex acts they don’t want to, it is: prostitution okay Rape expected

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Not So Fun Facts about Sexual Violence! Both women and men can be victims of sexual violence Sexual violence occurs 80% of the time by someone known to the victim Counseling and services are available for anyone who has experienced sexual assault or sexual abuse Both women and men can be victims of sexual violence Sexual violence occurs 80% of the time by someone known to the victim Counseling and services are available for anyone who has experienced sexual assault or sexual abuse

Power and Control The act of “guilting” or pressuring a partner to do something uncomfortable or outside their character is: normal Just like a marriage coercion healthy

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Interesting Facts about Power and Control! Abuse occurs when one person suffers from low self esteem and needs to have power and control in a relationship Violence is used to intimidate and control in relationships Everyone deserves to be in control of their own lives and be accountable for their own actions Abuse occurs when one person suffers from low self esteem and needs to have power and control in a relationship Violence is used to intimidate and control in relationships Everyone deserves to be in control of their own lives and be accountable for their own actions

Sexual Respect In order for people to be legally sexually intimate, they need to both be: In love Sober and consenting consenting sober

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Fun Facts about Sexual Respect! Sexual respect includes a consenting partner Consent is not possible when someone is under the influence or intoxicated Forcing or pressuring someone to have sex or do sex acts they are uncomfortable with is a form of rape Sexual respect includes using protection when a partner requests it Sexual respect includes a consenting partner Consent is not possible when someone is under the influence or intoxicated Forcing or pressuring someone to have sex or do sex acts they are uncomfortable with is a form of rape Sexual respect includes using protection when a partner requests it

Who Can Help Where can students get counseling and immediate services in Atlantic County? From a friend Sports coach Atlantic County Women’s Center Family physician

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Fun Facts about Who Can Help! ACWC provides counseling for teens and adults around dating violence and sexual violence provides this counseling in the schools also provides confidential shelter and legal advocacy ACWC provides counseling for teens and adults around dating violence and sexual violence provides this counseling in the schools also provides confidential shelter and legal advocacy

Million Dollar Question Dating violence and sexual violence is about: Power and control Drug/alcohol abuse love Money

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