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Positive Solutions for Families Session 5 Facing the Challenge (Part 1)

What’s Happening Today? Share your Things to Try at Home results. Discuss specific strategies that you can use with your child every day! 2

Measuring Behavior at Home Workbook Activity #21 What behaviors did you observe? Did the behavior look the same across observations, or were there changes? Were you able to figure out “why they do what they do”? Did you try to teach your child a new skill? How did all this make you feel? 3

Know What is Reasonable It is important to know your child’s abilities and limitations. Expecting too much or too little can lead to frustration for you and your child. Try to keep your expectations realistic! 4

Use Logical Consequences Workbook Handout #23 Logical consequences are an alternative to punishment. Logical consequences must be practical and enforced. Choices should be stated calmly, clearly, and respectfully. Logical consequences help guide children in learning how they are expected to behave in the real world. 5

Logical Consequences (cont.) Child throws block at sister –Parent takes block away A brother and sister are fighting –Parent sends them to play in separate rooms Now let’s try it together: Child keeps dumping water out of tub. Child leaves toys on floor. Child paints table and floor with finger paint. Child does not put on pajamas in time for favorite show. Child continues to bang toy when asked to be quiet. 6

You Try It! Small Group Workbook Activity #24 Pick a partner. List some problem behavior incidents you have seen your children have or that commonly occur. Write down possible logical consequences. Pick one to try with your child over the next week. Write it down. 7

Plan Ahead Try to anticipate what your child may do or may need in various situations. Plan ahead to set your child up for a successful experience. Hope for the best, but always have a backup plan! Plan ahead! 8

Present Limited, Reasonable Choices Most children are not born with a built-in ability to make decisions and then to accept the consequences. Learning to take responsibility for actions requires lots of support and practice! A good way to help your child develop these skills is to offer limited, reasonable choices throughout the day. Practice! 9

Can You Offer a Choice? Dressing Bathing Dinner Outside play TV Riding in car Shopping Cleaning up toys Going to bed Eating at a fast food restaurant Snack time Playing with siblings Reading a story 10

Limited and Reasonable? French fries, mashed potatoes, or tater tots? What do you want to wear today? Do you want a spanking or to play nicely? Stay up for 30 minutes or go to bed? Red shirt or blue shirt? Sit on couch or in bean bag? Play Legos or puzzles? 11

Say “First” “First you put on your shoes. Then you can go outside.” This is a contingency statement (First-Then). A “first-then” statement is a simple instruction that tells your child what to do in order to do something that he/she wants to do. “First you pick up your toys, then you can have a snack.” “First you finish getting dressed, then you can play outside.” 12

First/Then Think about your child…first/then 13

Redirection Providing guidance to children when they are misbehaving, redirecting children as a prevention strategy Interrupting a challenging behavior and redirecting a child to another activity using either physical or verbal redirection 14

Physical Redirection A physical redirection interrupts the child’s challenging behavior and re-engages the child in a more appropriate activity. Example: A child is playing in the sink and splashing water all over the bathroom. –The parent might choose to physically move the child away from the sink and over to toys in the child’s room. –The parent then sits down on the floor near the toys and begins to play in a way that is inviting to the child. 15

Verbal Redirection A verbal redirection distracts the child and provides an alternative activity. –Example: A child might be trying to gain the attention of a parent who is on the telephone with an important call. Another adult might then say to the child something like, “Hey, let’s go up stairs, and read some of your new library books.” –Example: A child is upset and throws a temper tantrum because he/she was asked to turn off the television. The parent redirects the child by saying, “Wow, it is beautiful outside. I feel like going to the park to play.” 16

Redirection for Teaching Workbook Activity #25 Redirection can also be used to prompt a child to use an appropriate skill. –Example: A child begins to have a tantrum because he is frustrated with putting a toy together. The parent says to the child, “Evan, you can say, ‘Help please.’” Evan says, “Help please,” and the parent then puts the toy together. –Example: A toddler begins to fuss while sitting in her highchair after finishing dinner. The parent says, “Olivia, you can say, ‘All done’” (using the sign for all done while speaking). Olivia signs, “All done,” and the parent helps her get down from her high chair. 17

If Your Child Doesn’t Comply… (Do-WAWP) State the “Do” direction. Wait for compliance (silently count to 5). Ask the child to restate the direction. Wait for compliance (silently count to 5). Provide encouragement or help. 18

Catch Your Child Being Good! Give specific, positive attention to your child for the behavior that you want to see, and teach your child what to do! “Wow! You are being so careful keeping all the pieces on the table!” 19

What Would You Say? Small Group Activity Your child sits at the table for a meal. Your child asks permission before taking. Your child gets right into the car seat. Your child lifts his/her foot up as you assist with putting on shoes. Your child gets right out of the tub. Your child smiles as you are playing together. Your child pets the dog softly. Your child puts one toy away. 20

Stay Calm When a child’s behavior is challenging, you can either respond to it or ignore it. If reaction is necessary, remember that less is usually best. 21

Use Neutral Time “Neutral” time is a time when your child is calm, and you are calm; it is a great time to teach your child what to do! Workbook Handout #26, Strategies That Help, lists all of the strategies we have reviewed during this session. 22

Things to Try at Home! Positive Parenting Tips List 3 of the strategies that you will try to use this week with your child. Use the workbook handout as a reminder of the strategies (Activity #27). Don’t forget to use positive comments and encouragement for those behaviors you want to see! 23